Erotica 2013 winter ball

What do men wear to this without giving the wrong impression? It's our first time and its exciting and sexy but a little scary. We are a little exhibitionist but definitely not swingers. Mrs tweeting is laughing as shell be in her cat suit and thigh length boots. What the hell does mr tweeting wear? Anyone with any experience can help us out?

It depends on how you want to come across really, generally anything goes. Possibly bondage trousers and a collar? What are the boundaries? =)

tittytweeting wrote:

What do men wear to this without giving the wrong impression? It's our first time and its exciting and sexy but a little scary. We are a little exhibitionist but definitely not swingers. Mrs tweeting is laughing as shell be in her cat suit and thigh length boots. What the hell does mr tweeting wear? Anyone with any experience can help us out?

Hi tittytweeting

Thanks for your thread. I have edited your post as the first line could have been misconstrued as offensive. Although I'm sure this wasn't your intention and it was more than likely done in complete innocence, please be aware of how other people may interperet your posts :)

And as for what to wear, what about something like this?

Sven O Wet Look Jeans

They're just a touch of kink and could be paired up with a plain black shirt if you wanted to tone down a little? Alternatively pair it up with something like the Blue Line Mesh Vest Top.

Pair it up with a bulky belt buckle, a few masculine accessories and boots and you'll be rockin' a sexy, extrovert and masculine look! :)

Either way, have a blast at Erotica! I'm very jealous! :P

tittytweeting wrote:

What do men wear to this without giving the wrong impression? It's our first time and its exciting and sexy but a little scary. We are a little exhibitionist but definitely not swingers. Mrs tweeting is laughing as shell be in her cat suit and thigh length boots. What the hell does mr tweeting wear? Anyone with any experience can help us out?

Hi tittytweeting

Thanks for your thread. I have edited your post as the first line could have been misconstrued as offensive. Although I'm sure this wasn't your intention and it was more than likely done in complete innocence, please be aware of how other people may interperet your posts :)

And as for what to wear, what about something like this?

Sven O Wet Look Jeans

They're just a touch of kink and could be paired up with a plain black shirt if you wanted to tone down a little? Alternatively pair it up with something like the Blue Line Mesh Vest Top.

Team the whole look up with a bulky belt buckle, a few masculine accessories and boots and you'll be rockin' a sexy, extrovert and masculine look! :)

Either way, have a blast at Erotica! I'm very jealous! :P

I'm so jealous! My OH and I are working so can't go! Hope you have a good time :)

The Erotica dress code looks really helpful so that looks like a good place to start.

Looking at fetish club websites like club TG can also give you an idea of fetishwear available if you're thinking of going down that route. They have picture galleries of what other people have worn to give you inspiration too :)

I think one of the best outfits I've seen was a steam punk influenced latex Scotsman, kilt and all! But better off keeping things simple first time round haha :p Xx

Thank you jess you saved me some embarrasment. I did not mean to cause offence. I apologise. Im sold on the trousers I think ill be getting them. Just waiting to see what OH thinks. Thanks for all the suggestions.