This thread makes me happy! I’m not actually a huge porn watcher currently (I definitely go through phases), but when I do I always go for ethical porn now. I find it’s a lot more female pleasure focused, and a lot more inclusive and diverse. As you say, some sites have used the term without actually having the values, but there are lots of places that are legit. I enjoy it so much more knowing that it’s completely consensual, woman are empowered, and sex workers are paid fairly!
Erika Lust is a very well respected film maker, she does lots of good stuff and it’s very diverse. Lustery is a good one for home made films by actual couples. Make Love not Porn is another good one for portraying what sex actually looks like! Bellesa also good!
Would love to hear others experiences and recommendations 