Hi all, me and GF are very open about our pasts. When we met as most new couples do she still had pics of her exes on her phone as did I. We agreed we would delete them but before we did we both looked at what we had. There was a couple of pics she had of guys cocks and they was quite big. I found it quite a turn on so my question is has anyone else ever had this and also have you ever been like me and often imagine her getting fuxked by those cocks when using a sex toy that’s bigger than yourself or a sleeve etc ?. Or lady’s has your man ever seen pics of an ex who was bigger than them and done this ?
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Had a couple of vids of my ex using a vibe, but deleted them out of respect, and the fact my current partner is much hotter lol
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Have I imagined a partner of mine with another guy? Sure. In my imagination have they sometimes been bigger than I am? Again, sure.
I’ve never imagined a partner with an ex though. Probably mostly because I don’t care enough to seek out what they look like. And on the odd occasion when I’ve stumbled across old pictures they’ve never been naked, and I’ve never cared or thought to ask to see any.
The takeaway of this from my part is that I just don’t care the penis size of exes.
Exes have shown me random dick pics they’ve randomly been sent though.
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Yeah for me was just a turn on imagining her getting fuxked by a guy who was bigger than me etc lol
I met a couple of my wife’s exes when we were dating, and I know there was a guy who was “the next size up”. But I don’t really imagine (or like to) her being intimate with others.
When we spoke about her bigger experience, it was mostly curiosity on my behalf (was it different, good/bad etc). We agreed it wasn’t big enough to have made a difference.
I’ve definitely been intrigued though about having a huge one, her experiencing one etc, so last year I bought a couple of extenders. I have no wish to fantasise about her with others, but thought why not give the size thing a go? The clitoris extends inward more than many people seem aware of … best way to hit it! 
Yeah so when we use a sleeve we often like to imagine she’s getting fucked by one of her bigger exes. Seems strange I know but is a turn on. We turn the lights off and she imagines I’m an ex and after she has cum I take it off and as she is so loose o say to her “I know you have cheated on me I can tell because you are pussy is so open” and she pretends she hasn’t etc as part of the role play and that’s the kind of scenario we act out .
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@adam.adpsec nothing weird about it all my friend. We’re all wired a little differently in terms of what turns us on, and what scares us. If it’s fun for you both, you have my blessing! Thats all that matters.
Given that I am the largest cock she’s had, I don’t have that issue. Given that some of her exes were the possessive type, I do amuse myself at times imagining them asking me how it feels to have their leftovers; to which I would reply, “After the first inch or two, it’s all virgin territory, thanks for asking.” 
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My ex’s varied from micro to maxi. One guy was tiny and excited was only 3”. The other was huge but useless at using it. Premature ejaculation was his problem. Sometimes it was so bad that he would cum just trying to get inside me. So the answer to your question is no I don’t compare or fantasise my past experiences, they weren’t that great!!! My husband on the other hand is above average and wow does he know how to use it. 
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In my previous relationship she had a fella before me who was absolutely hung like a horse, she had several photos, but also said however great it looked, he didn’t last long enough for her and the few seconds of playing around would end up with him busting and caused huge issues with them both.
My current partner I’m the biggest she’s had and her exes didn’t do anything for her. So Iv had both sides of the coin.
By the looks of this you are either describing a hot wife or cuck fantasy. Two very different fetishes but with large similarities haha. Hot wife is basically you find your partner so so so hot that you love sharing her with others, Cuckold is the degrading type fantasy, so the idea that other people can satisfy her more and having bigger cock etc falls into this. Usually cuckolds will get excited when they watch their partner and get told the other person (bull) is better etc.
I have tried both with my partner and we sometimes roleplay during threesomes which is fun. I absolutely adore her and love her in more ways than I can mention, but seeing her take a huge cock in front of me or be pounded while I watch is really fun.
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I also enjoy this fantasy of wondering about my wife’s previous ex’s. However we were both virgins when we met. She has told me briefly about boyfriends before me or guys she dated. Most of them were short lived, she said they would loose interest because she wouldn’t put out. I really want to know if during this period was she giving blow jobs, were they fingering or licking her pussy? We dated for about a month before she gave me my first blow job. Some day I’ll hopefully get more specifics from her! Lol
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Wow that’s fuxking amazing. Your profile is private so can’t see any info but how old are you guys. edited by mod
I’ve luckily been told specifics of her giving head and being fingered etc. for example she said she would not normally do that stuff until she got to know a guy but admitted a few times guys have got hard and got there dicks out when kissing etc and because they had real nice cocks she gave them blow jobs etc. another example is she met a hot guy in a club and really wanted him and they ended up in the toilet kissing but she was on her period so she just got on her knees and gave him a BJ lol
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I was always a little conscious about my cock size as it is average length, but girthy, I then brought a bathmate from lovehoney (read my progress blog I did) and mrstoysrus found the extra size uncomfortable, turns out my thick 6.5”er is the perfect size for her, never been concerned about it since
I’ve often wondered about getting one but never actually have. We just use cock sleeves instead that way we can choose whatever size she’s up for at the time lol.
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They do work, but it’s a lot of work, read my blog I was very detailed about it all
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Just over 8inches in length and it’s as thick as a lynx can 
I don’t really care for actual measurements as i have never wanted to feel disappointed! But my partner has had a few near 9 inches and some as thick as 4 fingers.
We’re in our early 30s and we have been together for over 12 years
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Funny you mention cans we have videos of her taking a glade can lol
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Which sleeves do you have?
We have the LH mega mighty 2 extra inches girthy extender.
We don’t use it all the time, but I enjoy her taking something big, and the Mrs likes it on special occasions too! We’ve role played after that I can tell she’s cheated on me with somebody big!
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We have the LH mega mighty 3 inch extender
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