I usually would need porn to get off, but I’ve recently got a master and so imaginations of things we do together or scenarios that I play out turn me on.
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If I do, it usually involves a threesome scenario with one of her friends
If I fantasise about my husband, it is often a threesome with one of my friends. Apparently, I have some fit friends. lol
I often fantasise about other people though. After all, it is a fantasy.
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I often fantasise about my wife. She can be a little prudish at times but at other times, really surprises me with little comments or actions. She recently went out to the shops but mentioned that she had already been out once that day and was concerned about lockdown and being stopped by the police.
I joked that she'd get away with murder if stopped in a tight T shirt and no bra (she has amazingly prominent nipples) and in no time, she'd text me a picture of herself in a skimpy white top which clearly showed her erect nipples.
More texts followed with vivid descriptions of being stopped, questioned, patted down and searched whilst leaning forward over the police car bonnet by the two good looking officers, all of which was hugely erotic and a massive turn on, presumably for both of us.
Although she never usually wants to talk about her fantasies, I think I may have inadvertently stumbled across one of her favourites although she hasn't mentioned it again since.
I'm open with her about my fantasies and the things that turn me on and would love her to share more with me.
Any tips on how I can get her to open up more would be really appreciated.
All my fantasies are about my hubby, and I tell him all about them, and brought most of them to life 
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Right in the same boat!
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Mostly always about my OH. Normally, she’s next to me when i’m masterbating. On the occasions I’m on my own, it’s normally about her but if my mind wanders, I normally find it wandering back to her as I get close.
I think it’s mostly because I love her lots and find her gorgeous but I think for me there’s an element of these fantasies are most certainly a reality compared to thinking about a pornstar or a moviestar etc
Most of my fantasies are starring the OH 
if I seen something in porn, I am like, oh we gotta try that and then boom, added to the fantasy list about OH
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I almost always fantasise about my wife. When I do watch porn it’s great but I usually end up getting ideas and then masturbating at a later date or the wife and I acting them out.
Sometimes I’ll buy her a new toy or piece of lingerie and we do end up doing it!
Same the other way round too, she’ll sometimes buy me a present / introduce a new idea that has come about after she thought about it while having some alone time.
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I can’t totally relate to your post here! If I watch porn alone or with my OH, I would fantasise her in some of the outfits in the porn on her, and 9 times out of 10 I’ll end up buying her an outfit or toy.
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What a good topic! All my fantasies are about my wife - and most of them aren’t fantasies but reliving some of our greatest play sessions in my head!
She has been great about reviving our sex life after having two kids and a long spell in the doldrums.
LH is a fantasy machine, as I love looking at lingerie and toys and then fantasizing about using them together.
At first, she wasn’t so keen on lingerie but she’s taken to it pretty well and we are building a small but fun collection! I particularly love wet look gear on her.
Now, she has largely become the lady of the fantasies that I had as a young guy; an erotic goddess who dresses for the part and is incredibly sensual.
If I give her a basque and a wand, she makes my dreams come true 
I don’t ever fantasize about threesomes. I have had a couple of experiences like that in the past with a different partner and I think I got it out of my system.
To be honest, I love being in the love bubble with my lady and the sense of connection I get with her just deepens, and at the current time of my life, I guess that’s the most important to me.
Essentially, I want her to achieve the highest levels of liberation, pleasure and happiness, and that shared experience fuels me.
Now back to the 45 items I have saved on my wish list, and fantasizing about what’s next 
