Fantasising about your other half

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I often fantasise about my wife. She can be a little prudish at times but at other times, really surprises me with little comments or actions. She recently went out to the shops but mentioned that she had already been out once that day and was concerned about lockdown and being stopped by the police.

I joked that she'd get away with murder if stopped in a tight T shirt and no bra (she has amazingly prominent nipples) and in no time, she'd text me a picture of herself in a skimpy white top which clearly showed her erect nipples.

More texts followed with vivid descriptions of being stopped, questioned, patted down and searched whilst leaning forward over the police car bonnet by the two good looking officers, all of which was hugely erotic and a massive turn on, presumably for both of us.

Although she never usually wants to talk about her fantasies, I think I may have inadvertently stumbled across one of her favourites although she hasn't mentioned it again since.

I'm open with her about my fantasies and the things that turn me on and would love her to share more with me.

Any tips on how I can get her to open up more would be really appreciated.

All my fantasies are about my hubby, and I tell him all about them, and brought most of them to life :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye::drooling_face:

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Right in the same boat!

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Mostly always about my OH. Normally, sheā€™s next to me when iā€™m masterbating. On the occasions Iā€™m on my own, itā€™s normally about her but if my mind wanders, I normally find it wandering back to her as I get close.

I think itā€™s mostly because I love her lots and find her gorgeous but I think for me thereā€™s an element of these fantasies are most certainly a reality compared to thinking about a pornstar or a moviestar etc

Most of my fantasies are starring the OH :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: if I seen something in porn, I am like, oh we gotta try that and then boom, added to the fantasy list about OH

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I almost always fantasise about my wife. When I do watch porn itā€™s great but I usually end up getting ideas and then masturbating at a later date or the wife and I acting them out.

Sometimes Iā€™ll buy her a new toy or piece of lingerie and we do end up doing it!
Same the other way round too, sheā€™ll sometimes buy me a present / introduce a new idea that has come about after she thought about it while having some alone time.

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I canā€™t totally relate to your post here! If I watch porn alone or with my OH, I would fantasise her in some of the outfits in the porn on her, and 9 times out of 10 Iā€™ll end up buying her an outfit or toy.

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What a good topic! All my fantasies are about my wife - and most of them arenā€™t fantasies but reliving some of our greatest play sessions in my head!
She has been great about reviving our sex life after having two kids and a long spell in the doldrums.
LH is a fantasy machine, as I love looking at lingerie and toys and then fantasizing about using them together.
At first, she wasnā€™t so keen on lingerie but sheā€™s taken to it pretty well and we are building a small but fun collection! I particularly love wet look gear on her.
Now, she has largely become the lady of the fantasies that I had as a young guy; an erotic goddess who dresses for the part and is incredibly sensual.
If I give her a basque and a wand, she makes my dreams come true :heart:
I donā€™t ever fantasize about threesomes. I have had a couple of experiences like that in the past with a different partner and I think I got it out of my system.
To be honest, I love being in the love bubble with my lady and the sense of connection I get with her just deepens, and at the current time of my life, I guess thatā€™s the most important to me.
Essentially, I want her to achieve the highest levels of liberation, pleasure and happiness, and that shared experience fuels me.
Now back to the 45 items I have saved on my wish list, and fantasizing about whatā€™s next :joy: :heart_eyes: :heart:

All my fantasies are about my wife. My sex drive has recently surged massively (just turned 47) and hers has waned in the last few years. We have spoken about it and sheā€™s agreed to try and prioritise intimacy more (not just physical, but holding hands, cuddles too etc).

I did recently reveal I like to masturbate about her (which while she wasnā€™t comfortable with, did agree it was a compliment). Admitting it to her has really deepened my feelings for her (didnā€™t think I could love her any more than I do) and so now I want to write down all my fantasies about her in a book. There will be no pressure for her to indulge / act upon all / any of them - but I love the idea that she knows my deepest fantasies about her (admittedly, some are more kinky than others), but the kinkiest (water sports) is something we tried when we were younger (27 years together) so Iā€™d like to think it wonā€™t be too shocking! Sheā€™s not one for really discussing this sort of thing, so I donā€™t expect her to find herself unable to put it down, but I hope she will read some of it.

Iā€™ve bought my wife some lingerie (bless her, her mind is incredibly practical), which she doesnā€™t see the point in. Sheā€™s very curvaceous (which I love) and struggles not to think that I think she needs to be wearing something for me to find her attractive (which simply isnā€™t the case - I adore her body, though most of the time any intimacy is with the lights off at her request). Hoping she might also come to gain some confidence from some if it. Youā€™re now my inspiration @our-adventure-bed!

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I always do and hope that one day my fantasyā€™s will come true

All the time. Just when I think i know him, he surprises me. Heā€™s so sexy like that.

For sure I do - after all, I married her for a reason.

Sometimes I even see her face whilst watching porn.

In my fantasies, we do often include a +1 though.

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My porn collection is All of my wife, why Wud I want to look at other women when she is all I lust after?

They say men can get ED etc by looking at porn, because they need that stimulation to get aroused
I figure if my porn stash is of my wife, and after looking at it, I need that stimulation to get aroused, then thatā€™s exactly what Iā€™m getting

Besides I find her hot as Fuk :fire::joy:

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I always fantasise my misses on sex machine doing different positions and toys and giving my bj and just watching in secatary outfit :stuck_out_tongue:

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I fantasize about my GF all the time. Usually of things i want to do to her or her to me. Lots of restraint fantasies. Then when the time is right i give it a go.

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I often have fantasy about what I want others to do to my wife and fantasy of me that she doesnā€™t even involve in

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:100: Mrs drives me wild & she feeds that back

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When my GF isnā€™t around, I fantasize about her. Physically, sheā€™s my ā€œidealā€ type. Slightly thick blonde with a pretty face, big breasts, and the most perfectly lickable little clit. Iā€™ve got a lot of photos of her just to rub off to, and I find that even when Iā€™m watching videos of other girls they are often of her physical type :wink:

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