Fantasising about your other half

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Hi all -

Just curious... there are many threads here about masturbation, porn and so on - do any of you fantasise more about your other halves?

We work different shifts and often in different parts of the country so don't always get the time we want at home (hence a recent spree on here to make sure we spend the time well!). But when I'm away, despite enjoying some fairly soft porn, I get a much bigger kick looking at the lingerie section of Lovehoney or other sites, and imagining the things I'd get up to with my other half as a result.

I was fretting for weeks about buying her lingerie, because she's plus size and very conscious, but the first session in a lace basque was the hottest we've had for a long time, never seemed to end, and she's already been given notice there are two more presents in the post...

But I do fantasised for days while the order was on its way and having gone exactly as imagined, fantasise regularly about doing it all over again. Guess this wasn't so much of a question as a nice intro, anyone go through the same fantasies?

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All my fantasies are about my wife.

Whenever I see a new toy or a new technique my first though is always "I'd love to try that with her."

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I always fantasise about my partner when masturbating. If using my dildo, I like to imagine its him inside me.

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Always have fantasies about the OH, probably the reason she is the receiptant of so much lingerie. 😉
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DLJL wrote:

Always have fantasies about the OH, probably the reason she is the receiptant of so much lingerie. 😉
Sounds familiar! Mine is in for a delivery this weekend ![](upload://5BDs2y1gm13l2R58ovmAMxyNM3f.gif)
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I hear you, Ginger. Sex with my OH is the best! Memories of our best times, remembering the touches, the sounds, the scents, the tastes and the emotions, can make me really hot under the collar. I love to fantasise about her with me, with toys, with lingerie. It's all good ;D

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i fantasise about my OH all the time. Imagining trying new things and her dressed up.

Remembering hot sessions in the past as well.

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illtakethehighroad wrote:

i fantasise about my OH all the time. Imagining trying new things and her dressed up.

Remembering hot sessions in the past as well.

Likewise, everything in the end is between the two of us, so making that even better and not stagnant by getting ideas is a bonus.

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More than I thought I ever would, often when I’m looking through lingerie or toys to surprise her with and imagining the outcome or her using such items.

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This also works for girls as well. I have often fantasied about products I see on the LH site and how I would use them on or with my husband. It’s very sexy to do this and I’ve once discussed this over the phone with my husband which resulted in us indulging in some simultaneous solo play at distance. 😊

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Nope, never. If I want to think about my husband, I have sex with him.

Play is time for me to make use of my extremely vivid imagination.

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Gosig wrote:

Nope, never. If I want to think about my husband, I have sex with him.

Play is time for me to make use of my extremely vivid imagination.

I was starting to think I was the only one who feels like this!

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My OH likes me to pleasure myself and tell him about it and I honestly can say I think about him whilst I do it because I know how much he gets off in it. Last night I actually had a very sensual highly sexual dream about him. Had been feeling horny all day then had a disagreement and went to bed. Woke up even more horny.

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wildflower wrote:

Gosig wrote:

Nope, never. If I want to think about my husband, I have sex with him.

Play is time for me to make use of my extremely vivid imagination.

I was starting to think I was the only one who feels like this!

Same!! Have discussed this previously. I'm not even in my fantasies, my Husband doesn't get close. It's a bit like watching porn but in my own head!
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I had times when I would think about my partner and times when she didn't even enter my mind those times were my thoughts and my thoughts only.

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wildflower wrote:

Gosig wrote:

Nope, never. If I want to think about my husband, I have sex with him.

Play is time for me to make use of my extremely vivid imagination.

I was starting to think I was the only one who feels like this!

Me too. Uch!
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Since mt wife has no sex drive , if I want sex with her I must use memories of fun we had . Then expand them for my solo masturbation .

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I wrote a story about one of my fantasies the other day and then acted it out with Mrs300 last weekend!

Lovely.

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I often think about her and what i want to do, but i then do it for real, so i would rather fantasise about someone else.