Has anyone ever tried out a fantasy, like a chastity cage for example, but really hated it in practice?
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Being submissive. Iâd never tried it before but I gave it an honest shot once with a FWB who said that she was into domination.
I wasnât into it anyway, but it was all over when she spat in my face out of the blue.
Shall we say that I then showed her my dominant side.
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For clarity, it wasnât a âregretâ (from the title) as I tried it and now I know⌠more something that I tried and hated.
I donât regret trying anything some thing Iâve liked and still do other where a bit like eeerrrrm not for me haha
Try it once you never know
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We regretted an mff after it all went a bit wrong for us. We now realise where things went wrong and really want to try again with someone else. Itâs just finding the someone else is quite a challenge.
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I once had a partner who loved food play, we once decided to turn her into a pick n mix basket by putting sweets inside her ⌠the next day she was itching like crazy and turns out some of the acidic sweets which were sour caused her to have a reaction which required medical attention 
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Have done a fantasy where I tied an ex up and spanked her with a paddle really hard but it hurt her so much we then couldnât have sex lol. (Disclaimer she said keep going) 
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As @Gareth mentioned, I canât think of any true regrets (I wish I hadnât done that), but have a few I didnât like.
Not a regret because I was willing to push my boundries.
One was dogging, tried it three times just to make sure! I just felt like a piece of meat when I invited a couple of guys over to join in.
Second thing which I tried a couple of times was being a greedy girl in a swingers club. Again, I felt like a piece of meat. The random grabbing of my body parts and the worst was those trying to penetrate me without a condom. Was a good jub I had a friend to keep an eye on the guys.
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Good point. I was trying to think of specific activities and never thought about social/sexual. I did have two very short term relationships I truely regretted if that counts.
On a similar theme, a very long time ago I was briefly seeing a girl who seemed really quite nice but also pleasantly adventurous and enthusiastic to try things.
She divulged that she wanted to have a threesomeâŚâŚexcept it was one that I watched, not participate in.
Being quite keen on her and thus wanting to placate her, I went along with it, so she duly arranged an evening out which included a couple of male colleagues of hers whom she knew fancied the pants off her and sure enough, when the suggestion was made they were all over it.
In hindsight it was possibly the dumbest thing to ever agree to. Watching these two beered-up lads leering at one another as they basically used her was just soul destroying. But not nearly as soul destroying as when a girl youâre maybe starting to have feelings for makes full, lingering eye contact whilst taking the full length of someone elseâs c*ck in her mouth, before winking and just carrying on.
I left there and then and never saw her again.
It still makes me feel a bit sick to this day when I (rarely) think about it. 
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Yes, caning. I really, really wanted to be caned - I had it in my head this kind of naughty schoolgirl feel. Anyway, it cut like the heat of a thousand fiery suns and I immediately called âredâ. Not one for me, that.
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I feel your pain, pun intended.
Had a GF once who was really in to caning, whipping and stuff and she was always begging to be thrashed harder, so much so it made me feel uncomfortable on occasions.
Anyway, when it came to my turn (which I was willing to tryâŚyer know, give anything a go once) I was tied up bent over a chair, virtually unable to move really.
She did the whole dominatrix thing, walking back and forth in front of me, stroking the cane before she moved on to swishing it through the air.
Then starts stroking my bare arse with it, âlining upâ her shot.
The moment I heard the strongest swish yet I knew in a split second what an error Iâd made and yup, as soon as that realisation hit, so did the cane.
As you say, like the fire of a million suns. Never again.
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You have got to love them when theyâre in their Dominant mood. I can get to my husbandâs softer side sometimes (he will, very occasionally, call me âMommyâ), but for the most part, he is my Dom and I know not to push my luck. However, when heâs in his full-throttle, âdelicious b*stardâ Dom mode, he does that whole Dom thing - namely for him itâs a cool confidence and talking to himself like some deranged scientist about to do a whole world of evil things to their captive, which is not strictly untrue, I suppose.
Hubby enjoys inflicting pain, and I enjoy receiving pain, but good heavens, there is a limit. I think the secret with canes (or any impact toy, for that!) is that unless you know what youâre doing (and perhaps more importantly, what you can take/enjoy!) is always to start gentle!
Thankyou for the long reply, and thankyou for the entertaining read 
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Weâve tried out almost all our fantasies and we havenât regretted any one. Some have been less exciting than hoped or expected but nothing was ever a cause for regret
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Yep I tried an ejaculating dildo and it wasnât as great as I imagined lol
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My biggest regret is simply not trying things sooner. I denied fantasies for years. Think of all the orgasms I missed out on.
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Sounds to me intensity was way too much to start with. One canât start full stroke and endure it otherwise itâs nothing more than corporal punishment.
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Absolutely this! Although I fear I might never have done anything elseâŚ
Yeah it happens, thereâs quite a few in my head that I think are really hot, but in practice I just donât want to do it, or am limited in my capabilities.
Sometimes fantasies are better off staying just that, and thatâs ok 
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