Fantasy you can’t or won’t fulfill

My favorite fantasy can’t ever happen for it is having a larger penis that lasts for 30 plus minutes during sex and my partner orgasming like 5 times or more. The other one is giving a blow job and swallowing all his cum. I have only sucked on one penis for one night when we showed off our penis and the smaller guy would suck the bigger Penis. I lost but we weren’t allowed to finish each other. We would jerk off together while watching porn. I would watch him jerk off and dream of sucking it. Because he had the larger penis he was in charge of what we did and when we jerked off. I wish he would have told me to give him a BJ but that never happened. I am married and my wife is not interested in bringing anyone in to our sex life and I would never cheat on her to do it without her. So this is just a fantasy that will never be fulfilled.

What are other people’s fantasies that won’t be fulfilled or you thought would never be fulfilled but surprisingly was.

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Thank you. I have tried them, tIt is that my wife doesn’t like them. She is fine with a toy that is larger, but during sex she wants to feel me not a toy. Thanks for the thought. I enjoyed the longer strides, deeper penetration, and lasting a little longer, but not tremendously. It failed to fulfill a portion of that fantasy.

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To suck and be fucked anally by a real penis.

It’s not something my wife would be comfortable with though so I’ll make do with the strap-ons.

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We try to fulfill all our fantasies as long we’re both on the same page about it. We have fulfilled multiple fantasies I didn’t expect to be fullfilled or from which I thought i would like, such as pegging, fisting, watersports and snowballing. Also years back We started with anal and bought our first buttplug to use on my wife, but because we both got curious also started it to using it on me, and now when we do anal I am on the recieving end most of the time.

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I would love a night of debauchery with 3 wild and dominant curvy women having their wicked way with me - being simultaneously ridden cowgirl, pegged and facesat, all whilst tied up of course. Or 2 performing oral and 1 rimming me at same time. Never going to happen as it’s well… highly improbable and the wife would probably not approve either, so will remain a fantasy.

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My overactive imagination comes up with dozens of fantasies that will never happen but it doesn’t stop me from living them out in my sleep :grin:

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Mine is to be 18 again , and be seduced by a 40-50 year old woman !!.

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To have a MMF bisexual threesome and be the filling in the sandwich :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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Most of my fantasies are in this category! They mainly involve being “used” as a sex slave / toy by a group of people, being a slave to a very hot vampire, or being “sacrificed” to a terrifying werewolf type of creature who turns out to be incredibly sexy and only slightly scary. Since I’m married and don’t really want to take part in group sex and werewolves and vampires don’t exist, I think we can be fairly sure that they can’t be fulfilled :sweat_smile:

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Similar boat to @Kitty-Cat01. Being a monster’s plaything, but alas, they don’t exist :smiling_face_with_tear: Still have my imagination and massive dildos to try and play out the fantasy, though.

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Always fantasized about seeing a professional dominatrix. As I’m in a very happy relationship now that’s off the cards. We’d both see it as cheating (no judgment on others who view it differently).

I occasionally fantasize about being pegged by my OH. Think if I really made a play for it she’d politely give it a go but i can’t say im that desperate.

I’d love to try some under the bed restraints, that’s realistic and something we’ll do. Chastity I suspect is something we’ll do at some point as we’ve talked about it.

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Mine would be:

  1. To be a sex boy toy for a glamour lesbian couple who only want sex from me in each and every hole. Much like the TUSHY clips you see and it is always the same dude? I want to be that dude… just there for the anal sex with 2 ridiculously hot women who are half my age who are also into each other. Super shallow - I get it. I’m a simple guy…lol

It wouldn’t hurt my feelings if there were 3 or 4 instead of just 2…

  1. To be a go to casual sex partner for professional women who fly into town and simply stop by for sex. Maybe dinner, some small talk but mostly one night stands. I think I would be happy with about 8-10 women who I would be their FWB.
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We’ve explored way too many fantasies this past year, one of which was once a big no no for me for a while.

Now that I’m finally getting my confidence back I have new fantasies but having learnt the damage that fantasies becoming realities can do I’ll be keeping future fantasies as that - a fantasy rather than a reality.

One is to visit a club (will definitely remain a fantasy for MANY reasons)

My other two … to christen our car and to have fun on a trampoline are most certainly possible ! So I’ll stick to the easy options hehe

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Thirty somethingwife. We are going to a club on Friday, if u mean strip club. I am half terrified but half excited. I don’t think anything to bad will happen, but will be chatting to my husband about the boundaries on Friday.
I’m glad that your getting your confidence back.
It’s funny you say that some of the things u have done in the past year, we’re a no no before. I dunno what changes in life, as previously going to strip club would be a no no for me, and going to a sex show in Amsterdam.
I just hope that it’s ok, and I don’t end up feeling like a whale, comparing myself constantly.

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Most fantasies have been fulfilled over the years either fully or partially. Sometimes we’ve realised that the reality isn’t as good as we expected and wasn’t really our thing while others have become a normal part of our sex life together.

One fantasy that she does have and I’m unsure if we will ever accomplish is for her to be used by a number of men and women as a sub, not to be fucked but spanked, whipped and abused

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I would like to be a maid to a couple for a week.The attire would be a classic french maid outfit with stockings and suspenders.
I’d be responsible for cooking,cleaning,polishing their shoes and even lighting their cigarettes.If my work was not up to standards I’d be made to lean over a table and receive a caning.Regularly I’d be groped and fondled by the guy and girl.
I’d be on call at anytime for sex for either of them or both together, and would also have to pleasure their visiting friends.
Would love to be controlled like this and told what todo sexually.A massive turn-on,but somehow it’s not gonna happen!

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I don’t think I have any fantasies as such. I remember a while back my husband told me one of his fantasies was a threesome, but to be honest I’d probably get insanely jealous and scratch the other woman’s eyes out :joy:, so that’s not going to happen lol. Though part of me has wondered what being with a woman would be like.

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To experience another woman giving me oral.

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One of my current fantasies would be to have a foursome with my wife and a trans woman and her wife.

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