Fantasy you can’t or won’t fulfill

This is a fantasy for me only. I have always wanted to get my nipples pierced and possibly cock but never had the guts to go through with it. Plus I enjoy nipple play and “torture” so much I don’t think I could do without it for the time it would take to heal. We introduced clamps some years ago and OH happy to play with them as part of every session.
I would like her to peg me but think that will remain a fantasy as apart from solo anal play it’s not part of our sessions.