Does anyone have any favourite power moves they like to do when in dominant mode with a sexual partner or be on the receiving end in more submissive mode?
If I’m in a slightly cocky dominant mood I like to stand in front of my wife whilst she’s lying on bed or sofa and start removing my belt. This is her cue to enthusiastically perform oral on me. Keeping the rest of my clothes on keeps the power dynamic.
If I’m in a more submissive mood I like it when she presses me against the wall whilst we’re kissing and holding each other.
Probably my favourite though is when she’s riding me on top and presses my hands down, though this is only a relatively rare event alas.
I’m not sure if it’s classed as a “power move” but when spooning I love to reach over and grab/cup my OH’s V and just grip slightly as I thrust. Just gives me that little feeling of power over her in a kinky way and allows me to pull her into me move for deeper penetration. Hopefully that’s not too graphic.
The wife loves it when I get forceful and pin her wrists, tie her wrists up and perform for her / on her.
One thing I do gets mixed reactions - I will lick her till she is almost there, then stop.
She craves more but sometimes it kills it and she can’t arrive, no matter what we do.
When I’m in a dominant mood I like to tell a partner they can’t touch me and make them behave patiently while I toy with them or myself, usually in lingerie. Sometimes I use restraints, sometimes I just tell them they have to sit still. It’s fuuuun
When I’m in a submissive role I love commands and being pinned or restrained. A big power move I find quite hot is when a partner puts their hand on my throat (doesn’t have to be breath play, just the hand there is great) or takes my hair in their hand to direct my head where they want it
This is probably my wife’s favorite power mood when domming. She likes to ride my face (or cock) but not allow me to touch her, especially her breasts. Or she’ll instruct me how much I can touch myself while she plays with her toys, but still I’m only allowed to watch.
Sometimes when I’m on my back being submissive I’ll suddenly take control and flip them around so I’m then on top and slowly go down to suck them off while also tickling and fingering their hole
Sometimes the best power moves are not physical ones, but instructions. I love telling my wife she can’t cum when I feel her peaking, I make her hold it as long as she can. Or telling her that I want her to deep throat/gag on my cock! Telling her to take my whole cock slowly. Instructing her to finger herself it run her clit while I suck on her nipples… It’s fun when you both are comfortable with each other to the point where you can instruct or ask for things!!
I like when my hubby holds me down on the bed, normally then Ive just got a towel rapped around me after a shower
I stand in front of him near the edge of the bed facing away from him
He then with my agreement holds me down face down holding my hands down then getting on my legs and bum, then I let him have his wicked way with me
gently grabbing of my hair, restricting my movement with his body, pinning my arms and gently hand round my neck. Nothing too scary, but definately showing dominance and what he wants is a real turn on and gets me every time
Has to be guiding their hands when they’re taking just a little too long to get the hint it’s like come on, there’s other, more important places to be paying attention to
My favorite power moves when I’m feeling dominant are to playfully tease/deny giving her PIV until she is practically begging for it; I’ll use my fingers, tongue, toys, anything but my penis and even then, I might just tease her with it externally without any penetration or just a tiny bit before stopping. It drives her crazy. I’ll also place my hand on the back of her head while she’s giving me oral if she’s on her knees.
When I’m feeling more submissive, I just want her to take control and order me around and tell me what she wants me to do. I enjoy being treated like a toy or servant when I’m in that kind of mood.
The wife likes to be bent over and taken from behind, sometimes with the wrist to thigh cuffs which have become one of her favorites.
When it’s her in a dominant mood I love to be gagged, blindfolded and made to be her licking / sucking slave and have her play with me / tease me for ages.
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I have a total sub GF, and I’m the Dom. We are both innate pleasers, I’m just a more dominant personality type than she is. It’s taken me forever to get her to face sit, without a directive. (I was very close to buying her a queening chair with handcuffs and locking her in. I told her this, before she found the courage to try and be a little more dominant.)
Since that conversation, every now and then she surprises me and I love it. I have the same reaction your boyfriend does.
There’s something so primally erotic about women who are comfortable with themselves enough to do that. The reversal of the “normal viewing angle,” adds to that. And I think, that maybe, the biggest turn on for both of us is the “switch,” of the power play role dynamic.
We both love to please. I just love seeing her wanting to please me by receiving the pleasure dominantly rather than submissively if that makes sense?
Totally agree and I also have a facesitting chair and it’s used a lot
I used to be very submissive but about 5 years ago we had a very in depth talk and my thing was I wanted to be in charge and at the same time he wanted to be submissive- so win win
Using the chair is also great as my man is also 6’3” so we find it easier on the floor (with a seriously deep rug)
But honestly, since she has started doing it. And she realizes she can put all of her weight on me, with no issues. It’s helped her self esteem a lot too I think.
She’s by no means over weight. She just has a lot of the stereotypical black (ass)ets and is very well endowed. So I’m spite of looking incredible. She is self conscious about her weight.
Which makes no sense to me except in one way.
She draws the eye when in public if you get my drift. I always point this out to her so she realizes the abuse she has been put through by her ex-husband simply isn’t true.
It’s not even a slight exaggeration to say those 4 individual body parts equal 40 or more pounds. She’s 160 pounds. The first time she did it. She was so afraid she was going to crush me, I simply grabbed her by the waist and picked her body off of me with my arms only and said. “I think we are good.”
She has loosed up a bit since then. But I think the queening chair might alleviate the last hesitation she has. But I enjoy the closeness (and the weight honestly), on my chest. And it’s much more comfortable neck-wise than trying to squeeze onto the right position regardless of mattress size, face down at 6’3 for as long as I tend to stay there.
it’s like come on, there’s other, more important places to be paying attention to 