When you really need to unwind what do you do? Some people will have a long hot bath, or read an easy going book or even something else that we have many topics about on this forum, so what’s your go to?
Bath for me with lots of products in with me and afterwards fresh clean clothes
I like to sit out on the patio with a coffee or beer and listen to music.
I like to lay my head on hubby’s chest with his arms around me, with my hand on his chest so I can feel his heart beating. It’s like as soon as I lay there, my mind just blocks out any distraction and noises ![]()
Get lost in a book and cuddle a dog (one of mine, not some random pup haha)
Go out for a walk then come back home and relax with a good movie.
Or tinker around with my computer.
A good book and a cup of tea, preferably earl grey. Or a book and a glass of wine. Depending on the time of day. A good cuddle like @Dirty-Wife said is also a good option if my husband is free.
ETA: I just read @MsSubExperimenter’s post and it reminded me, adding a cat to my lap whilst reading the book with tea/wine is even better. The cat is welcome during cuddles but only if it’s just cuddles!
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Mostly just listening to music ![]()
i put on some classic rock
Listening to music, playing a video game, watching a show. I love organizing things too.
Listening to music, laying in the warm sun on a quiet beach with waves lapping the shore. Or practicing TaiChi., and meditating.
Apart from sex, obviously…
Engaging with nature. Could be listening or watching birds, a glorious sunrise, forest bathing, anything really that involves nature in some way.
A nice long walk if its not to hot, or sitting near water,a river ,canal or the sea.
For me its sitting in the garden with a nice cold beer having a good chat with the wife
“Tingle nap”, ASMR + nap. I sleep deep.
Sitting in my garden listening to the birds singing, that is until the kids next door start shouting and screaming and my little bit of peace and quiet is shattered.
A wank usually helps but I rarely get give space for that so I spiral and play on my switch lite console to try help
Usually a video game. Particularly something familiar that I know so well that I don’t have to spend a lot of time wondering what I’m doing.