as a female or male?
CBT with some sexy stiletto shoes on my cock !
So many ways, good power dynamic, rope, canes, whip, hair pulling, face slapping, tears..... the list goes on :-)
KinkyClover wrote:
So many ways, good power dynamic, rope, canes, whip, hair pulling, face slapping, tears..... the list goes on :-)
sounds great, ever used a ring gag? is there one big enough for a penis?
tied up, blindfolded, flogged and told what to do :P x
I like my domination to be more fluid and part of a 24/7 dynamic, to be with someone who will tell me it's bed time, what they want cooking for tea, when I should get a shower, what they want me to wear etc. I'm not a masochist so someone causing me pain doesn't really feature. I will allow someone to cause me pain but they have to be respectful of two things- I'm doing it for their pleasure not mine; and the hornier I am, the higher my pain threshold is.
When it comes to sex I like my men very much in charge, even if its them telling me to get on top and make them come. When it comes to women I'm much more switchy. I think a lot of women are like that though.
First of all i like my hands tied, then secured above my head so that i can just reach the floor with my toes! then i like to have my skirt and blouse ripped off, followed my my knickers and bra! naked, i like my bum to be spanked until red raw! then, i like to be bent over and fucked hard!! (i wish lol) xx
I love being told what to do, following orders pleasing him . Love being tied up and spanked
mm need to start a new thread ' favourite ways to dominate'.....as i prefer to adminsister..
Ditto...... Well said
Hen Night Toad wrote:
KinkyClover wrote:
So many ways, good power dynamic, rope, canes, whip, hair pulling, face slapping, tears..... the list goes on :-)
sounds great, ever used a ring gag? is there one big enough for a penis?
Actually no I haven't but I would love to try and the reason I have not yet is because any I have seen don't look big enough for a penis. I think the smaller ones are to induce drool, for humiliation factor and messy godness. I'd be curious to find one big enough for a penis. If anyone knows please do share. :-D
so, how do you like to dominate, and what would you do? xx
@ Sonia's question.......
our D/S fun is play related as opposed to 24/7 and in truth i don't consider myself a 'dom', atleast not in the hardcore sense, more a pleasurer - with an edge.
nothings written in stone, depends on mood but a play session might start with a little RP where JJ is my 'companion for the evening' - hence acceeding to my suggestions- a soft start, some drinkable bubbles and smalltalk with her dancing for me and attempting to tease........
which would often lead to a little reprimand - a light hand based spank across my knee before being blindfolded and led to perhaps the cross or the bench that i made. restrained with chains and immobile to the more sensuous teasing: feathers, art brush, faux fur combing with more steely objects like a wartenburg wheel or an ice cold metal wheel.
sometimes the blindfold is removed so that she is forced/able to watch porn as i stand behind her and awaken the nerve endings in her back, other times i might pop a pair of headphones on her with the audio track from a porno - so her imagination has to work.......
somewhere aong the line she'll be chained to the bench on all fours, and that earlier hand warming/spank will eveolve into other\ props.....flogger, paddle - or the crop to tease her pussy. She isnt into heavy spanking, so its a question of finding the line and gradually increasing /decreasing mood dependant......
i like to use a hitachi and an eroscillator with her chained to the bench - both of those fixed to stands so that i can continue to teaase her with anything from nip clamps to wax or just the flogger draping across her skin. and/or a little electro play with a clit and v trode ....and when she's reached the point where the orgasms are rolling into 1 then quite often the f/machine comes out...so she'd still be chainedacross her body keeping her still with the f/machine and the eroscillator working their magic...which leaves me free to enjoy some attention orally or to simply kiss or caress other\parts of her body, or to grab her hair, throat.... and eventually the toys are turned off i'll unchain her for 'our time'....
dont use big props all the time, earlier it was just rope, cupping-vacum set for nips, clamps and a cple of vibes - or days like yesterday not a toy in sight, just a light spank across my knee and then held firm exploring all those precious internal spots.
omg, heaven xx
thx Sonia - thinking about it ' sensual dom' is prob my tag.
Ork wrote:
Bound up and beaten, then screwed :)
absolutely love the bluntness in that answer. lol very good ork
Blindfolded, having my clothes removed so that I'm completely naked, tied up either with hand cuffs or bed restraint where my wrists and ankles are strapped to the 4 corners of the bed out stretched, and then completely at the mercy of my OH weather he wants to tease me, fuck me hard, play with vibrator or toys or oral sex. Totally love being dominated during sex, but if tells me what to outside of mutual bedroom agreement he's asking for a smack lol!!