Are they a myth or are they true?
100% true from someone who experiences them
My wife has some of the best orgasms from anal sex. It also feels amazing for my as while I am inside her I can feel her grip me when she comes. She has also had the biggest squirt orgasms from anal so the answer is yes.
My wife genuinely needs clitoral stimulation to orgasm, but she orgasms without during ansl sex
So i would so she not alone in this pleasure
Oh yes they exist- but it’s assisted with clitoral play as well
I’m AFAB, so my body is technically female even though I mostly live in my boy form these days.
But yes, anal orgasms are real. I like anal just as much as PIV if not more, especially because anal allows me to remove excess vaginal fluids. I like a helping hand on my clit, or even a toy, but I can come from anal by itself.
The OH has never orgasmed through anal sex alone, however, with her wand on her clit and my cock in her bum, she has had some of her strongest orgasms.
Ok, so that is a resounding yes.
Other than clitoris stimulation, what are the tips to make an anal orgasm possible?
Positions, different type of lubes, or anything thing else
Varies person to person. I’ve known girls who easiest orgasm = anal, next = vaginal, hardest is clitoral.
Wands / womanisers change the equation a bit as they are so damn good with clits
Definitely real
oh writing this. PLEASE tell me how! We enjoy anal, he does a good job of stimulating my clit to give me an orgasm. But never an anal one!
Unfortunately can’t recommend any particular techniques, maybe I’ve just been lucky but I’ve found that anal orgasms in my partners are pretty dependable
Lots and lots of foreplay so I’m literally dripping wet plus lots of lube.
A tried and tested way for us is him spooning me and rubbing his cock all over me (clit, v and bum), sometimes just nudging my bum, not going in. I use the wand below which whilst looking like an odd shape slides all over, great for clit stimulation and whilst he’s nudging my bum, sometimes just nudging the tip in I go from clit to inside my V and back = anal orgasm.
Another go to when I feeling more submissive is to lay on my front with the toy below on my clit and sometimes a vibrator inside me. Then OH pins me down and again nudges my bum with his cock. Hair pulling, full weight on me and all of the above can produce anal orgasm.
Hope these give you some ideas.
Some of that sounds HOT - minus the hair pulling. We don’t do pain. I’ve had his penis in my butt while he fingers my clit, or he licks me while fingering my butt - nothing gives me an anal orgasm. But your suggestions may help. He never touches my butt hole with his penis then goes to my V. I’m afraid of an infection even though I make sure to be clean for him.
100% true… well for me anyways
Are there any toys that you would suggest to help set the mood?
I am quite girthy so I think I would have to warm her up and relax her.
I know a transgender man who’s hugely into it. He says he feels like hitting his gspot through anal feels like his nonexistent prostate and it makes him feel great about his gender identity.
Depending on how long i last my wife will always have at least one anal orgasm. Knowing she has cum usually sets me off but if i last long enough she will cum twice during anal sex.
Hair pulling at the base of the neck isn’t painful.
We use wype bum gel to make sure we are clean. We don’t double dip so to speak, it’s more rubbing and nudging.
My wife’s most intense orgasms are definitely those concurring with anal sex, but I don’t know if she would call them anal orgasms. Almost always includes a dildo vaginally and Womanizer/Melt on her clit. Tough to separate the specific physical acts from the mental arousal pieces (we normally end up having anal at the end of an extended session or concurrent with power play and much dirty talk), as well as all the different areas of stimulation working together to one goal.
So that’s probably not very helpful at specifically answering your question. But I do know that she’s now at a point where the anal sex is part of her enjoyed and desired experience where it started as just tolerable discomfort. She now enjoys and craves the filling.