Hi guys me and my o.h have just tried the doc Johnson penis extension but had to stop because she said it was becoming uncomfortable with a burning/stinging sensation. We used plenty of lube (durex play water based) that we've used before on just me without any issues so we're wondering if my wife is reacting to the toy.has anyone else experienced this?
I find the penis extenders can be a bit uncomfortable. Try using a natural lube like lovehoney waterbased or sliquid. They have none of the nasties that durex are notorious for.
I have 4 of these extenders but they were retired long on shelves display.
We've never used extenders... and not sure what they're made from - wondering if your wife is slightly allergic to the material?
Over the years I've come to understand that girls like girth over length, so an extender can make you 'too long' banging against her cervix which in some girls is uncomfortable perhaps this is the issue? Especially in doggy position?
We didn't get that far and besides I'd given my word that i would be very careful.
RosyCheek wrote:
I find the penis extenders can be a bit uncomfortable. Try using a natural lube like lovehoney waterbased or sliquid. They have none of the nasties that durex are notorious for.
Thanks for the reply we thought all waterbased lubes were more or less the same but we've never had problems with the durex products before so we're wondering if she could be allergic to the material the extension is made from.
LadySpider wrote:
We've never used extenders... and not sure what they're made from - wondering if your wife is slightly allergic to the material?
Yes we're wondering the same as we've not used toys before.
Quiet ones are worse! wrote:
Over the years I've come to understand that girls like girth over length, so an extender can make you 'too long' banging against her cervix which in some girls is uncomfortable perhaps this is the issue? Especially in doggy position?
We didn't get that far unfortunately and it was under solemn oath that i took things "very " steady as my o.h was very nervous about it.
Perhaps that's the very answer, being very nervous tends to make anyone tense up?pootle wrote:
Quiet ones are worse! wrote:
Over the years I've come to understand that girls like girth over length, so an extender can make you 'too long' banging against her cervix which in some girls is uncomfortable perhaps this is the issue? Especially in doggy position?
We didn't get that far unfortunately and it was under solemn oath that i took things "very " steady as my o.h was very nervous about it.
RosyCheek wrote:
I find the penis extenders can be a bit uncomfortable. Try using a natural lube like lovehoney waterbased or sliquid. They have none of the nasties that durex are notorious for.
What would these 'nasties' be? Wasn't aware Durex were 'notorious' for anything.
I guess a natural waterbased lube would be spit?
Glycerin and aspartame are in a lot of lubes not just Durex, however a lot I their range has them. Unless you look for them on the ingredients you don't realise they are there. I used to swear by the Durex Aloe thinking it was great but never realised that's what was causing my discomfort after sex. The sugars cause bacteria to breed like mad. Even my husband had tender dangley bits from it. Until we switched we didn't realise that was the issue. By natural I really mean one without these ingredients. I personally wouldn't use spit. Works in porn I believe but in real life it doesn't help.Private_member wrote:
RosyCheek wrote:
I find the penis extenders can be a bit uncomfortable. Try using a natural lube like lovehoney waterbased or sliquid. They have none of the nasties that durex are notorious for.
What would these 'nasties' be? Wasn't aware Durex were 'notorious' for anything.
I guess a natural waterbased lube would be spit?
RosyCheek wrote:
Glycerin and aspartame are in a lot of lubes not just Durex, however a lot I their range has them. Unless you look for them on the ingredients you don't realise they are there. I used to swear by the Durex Aloe thinking it was great but never realised that's what was causing my discomfort after sex. The sugars cause bacteria to breed like mad. Even my husband had tender dangley bits from it. Until we switched we didn't realise that was the issue. By natural I really mean one without these ingredients. I personally wouldn't use spit. Works in porn I believe but in real life it doesn't help.Private_member wrote:
RosyCheek wrote:
I find the penis extenders can be a bit uncomfortable. Try using a natural lube like lovehoney waterbased or sliquid. They have none of the nasties that durex are notorious for.
What would these 'nasties' be? Wasn't aware Durex were 'notorious' for anything.
I guess a natural waterbased lube would be spit?
REALLY!!! Omg we're going to have to do some product research from now on.
pootle wrote:
Hi guys me and my o.h have just tried the doc Johnson penis extension but had to stop because she said it was becoming uncomfortable with a burning/stinging sensation. We used plenty of lube (durex play water based) that we've used before on just me without any issues so we're wondering if my wife is reacting to the toy.has anyone else experienced this?
If you have used the Durex lube together before and had no problem then that shouldn't be the problem (and it is inexpensive cpmpared to others).
However you say you have just used it on you, if you haven't used it for penetrative sex before perhaps it is an issue. Do you use any other oil or lube normally that you could try?
There's plenty here just look for it to say glycerin free.