I am curious if there are any women who enjoy being in control, of having power over a man sexually. I have a real desire to explore feeling powerless to a woman
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Of course. There are plenty.
Though it’s not necessarily my preference, I’ve had sexual encounters with dominant women a handful of times and some have been really great!
I wish someone could help me feel powerless online
I see from your profile that you have a partner, have you spoken to them about being more dominant in the bedroom?
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There will be. But this is not the forum for that.
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Oh yes she is not interested
Plenty of men and women love control play, what did you want to know? How it made people feel while being in control and why they enjoy it? Or just asking if folks like it?
My girl is a total submissive but turns into a brat when needed, a few drinks unleashes that side.
Just checking… though your partner does not want to personify the Dom role herself, she knows and is on board with you fulfilling this fetish/fantasy elsewhere? This is not something you’re persuing behind her back?
Welcome to the forum sir! There’s quite a few on here who enjoy this practice so I’m sure you’ll get many responses to it 
I just someone would like to help me explore this online and see how far it could go
@Jarinm I’m very much in charge in the bedroom and love to dominate my husband and that involves a lot of reward and punishment…
For me it’s fun and exciting to dominate as it’s a total role reversal from normal man in charge
I wish I could explore that feeling somehow
Just ask your partner - suggest she dresses up and you get spanked or made to please her …
she has lost her desires for sex and is not willing to explore…I wish I had someone online to help me
Just talk to her - she may be bored with normal penis in vagina sex
I have talked many times with her. She has told me I am on my own
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Hello @Jarinm and welcome to the community.
The Lovehoney forum is not somewhere you will find an online Domme to fulfil your fantasies; this is a place for sex advice and talk, not for fantasy engagement. I have no doubts that this place would descend very quickly if we were all helping one another get off, not to mention that there would be countless relationships in jeopardy, something that I’m sure the wonderful people at Lovehoney want to avoid 
You say that your partner has said you are on your own. Might I suggest you try Fetlife? There are numberous Dommes on there. I’m sure you will find someone who might be up for Dominating you online. Just make sure your partner is okay with you seeking fulfillment elsewhere first.
Good luck
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I WANT TO BE DOMINATED!!! It turns me on, but I am the one in control.
My wife is my dominatrix, she’s getting fab at it as it’s a relatively new thing for us. We have a few whips, canes and paddles now and she started really light at spanking me with them, I want her to really hurt me with them. She is getting more aggressive but I can take more. I love when she fists and pegs me too this is a weekly thing now, and have been doing this for some time. I love being her sub.
As long as she demands I worship her feet I’m down 