Female equivalent of deepthroat

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Hi ladies and gents. First poster her :grin:
My wife gives the most amazing bjs and always tries to get me as far down her throat as she can which I really do appreciate but I was wondering what is the female equivalent of deepthroat?
What is something really special I can do whilst going down on her (which I love doing)?
Thanks LV forum :wink:

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Hello and welcome @JamesDG69 :slightly_smiling_face:

Temperature play can be fun, so a nice warm mouth and a chilled glass dildo are a good pairing. :+1: (straight dildos are easier for this :slightly_smiling_face:)

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Just like penises can look very different from one another, so can clits. Furthermore, each person can have different preferences.

Personally I love it when my partner plays with the part of my clit that can’t be exposed and is covered by my clitoral hood. That combined with direct clitoral stimulation and/ or g-spot stimulation makes me come in record time.

You can ask your wife what she would like you to do. Communication might be awkward at first but it does pay off, I promise! :heart:

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Back when I got to lick away , I found an ice cold glass of water to occasionally dip my tongue in seemed to bring my wife to orgasm . Lick her along her lips and dart in and out and work on her clit and as she was in bliss , hold my tongue in ice water for a bit and then straight back to the clit with a very chilled tongue . The sudden temp change really pushed her to a powerful orgasm .

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My partner loves it when I suck in her clit as hard as possible and lick away at it! :smiling_imp:

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The first person to ever bring me to orgasm was very good at curling his index and middle finger upwards inside me at the same time mapping out the alphabet on my clitoris - being very thorough on every single letter!

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It is usually hard sucking on her clit or a rigid tongue buried deep in her pussy which has the OH getting off. Long lazy Licks the full length of her pussy also works.

As with most things sexual, it is mood and communication which gets the desired results.

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Thanks guys for all your tips.
I like to try different angles, especially like 69 but without the 9 as she seems to really like that.
I’ve also been trying to work my whole hand inside her which she seems to really like but only of course with quite a lot of spit.
She can orgasm from me going down there but likes to finish off with PIV :wink:
Thanks LH forum

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Lube. Try some lube. :slightly_smiling_face: Spit is a terrible lubricant. You can even get flavoured ones. :+1:

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I think just like deep throat, every person will have individual preferences. I’d definitely recommended asking her if there’s anything else you can do to enhance her pleasure.

During oral on me, I personally love fingers at the same time. For me it takes it to that next level - although I know it can be quite an awkward position for the giver! Position wise I’d recommended her laying on the bed with head off the end, and you standing leaning over… Not sure if that makes sense? Gives the perfect angle for gspot stimulation with fingers and still have access for your tongue :ok_hand:t2: But obviously check this is something she’d want first! Communication is key :blush:

Lube is your friend!! Will make things so much easier :hugs:

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I might need to get some lube :grin: but mrs g doesn’t like water based ones as the ones we have tried, from cheap to expensive dry out and chaff. Is there any oil based lube that are flavoured?

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Funnily enough, you can revive water-based lube by adding a sprinkle of water or spit to it. :slightly_smiling_face: We still tend to keep a bottle handy and just squeeze more on when needed though. I over bought lube in a sale quite some time ago, and I’ve still got roughly 7 gallons still to get through. :slightly_smiling_face:

I don’t think oil ones would feel that great in your mouth no matter the flavour, but someone else may know more. :slightly_smiling_face:

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Hi James, have you considered a hybrid lube?

These ones are very good quality:

Also this is a very unique lube which is water based but also has some natural oils in it - it feels amazing once it has warmed up and has no taste at all:

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Thanks Scorpius12 I like the look of the sliquid one :heart_eyes::wink:

I have one of the lovehoney silicon lube but this one looks a lot nicer and may taste better.

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I’d second lube, you can get the lovehoney one in a larger bottle for about £17, lasts a year of use, if you feel it’s going dry simply add more at the price! https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=40017

As for the equivalent as others have said it is different for different people, but my girlfriend currently rather enjoys me getting her clit out and sucking rather hard or getting my tongue deep in her. Both of these can lead to sore tongues or mouths so I guess it is close :upside_down_face:.

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No problem! Just remember not to use these type of lubes with silicone toys :grinning:

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