Asking as a male, do females generally like to stop penetration either from sex or masturbation as they orgasm or continue to stimulate themselves or be stimulated throughout the duration of the orgasm?
Every body is different, but once I’ve reached orgasm I usually want to swap clitoral stimulation for vaginal penetration for the second, third, fourth, fifth… orgasm.
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Everyone’s going to be different.
My wife wants direct clitoral stimulation to end as she cums as she’s too sensitive immediately after (like having my penis head stimulated after I’ve cum) but she prefers to have internal penetration and stimulation to ride through the orgasm (her least favorite thing about when we would pull out regularly was that I regularly would make it just until the point of her orgasm before I had to pull out and cum on her belly and she HATED losing that something to squeeze right at the point of orgasm).
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My OH generally likes continuous stimulation right through her orgasm, and then usually stops until she is ready to go again, if the mood strikes her.
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Mrs bustywife here, mr always makes me cum through oral and penetration i can have multiple orgasms orally which i love, but I’ll also cum a few times with his cock in me.
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I suspect there is no straight right answer to this, its down to what the lady prefers. Ask, listen and do then repeat as requested.
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Now you’re just showing off !!!
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Like a lot have said everyone is different
My wife also needs clitoral stimulation during sex to be able to orgasm, but does prefer me to be inside her as she orgasms
As this increases the intensity of her orgasm also allowing us to cum together 
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Sometimes depending on the mood things change up for us. If we start with PIV then she will prefer me to go into her very shallow, only a couple inches deep, while she rubs her clit, there are times she wants me to stay still and go a little deeper so she can squeeze on me while she cums. When I get close to orgasm, I will be on top and moving slowly but deep and pick up the pace right at the end where she may have another orgasm from that.
Everyone is different and every time can be different also.
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Samantha here. For me If its a clit orgasm by oral or masturbation, I like it to carry on right through but stop fairly quickly afterwards as my clit will be too sensitive.
Penetration is a different story. I can cum and cum so if ben is fucking me and im in the middle of an orgasm, he will speed up or fuck me harder which just leads into continuous multiple orgasms. If were having anal sex then I will ask him to stop for a second after 3 or 4 orgasms as they are so powerful I will pass out.
The best thing is when he gets me on the brink. Literally one more thrust and im going to cum and he will stop or change his rhythm. Usually leads to me calling him all sorts of names but when he let’s me cum it’s the best feeling
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Whilst I am actually orgasming, I like someone else to stimulate to me drag the orgasm out for as long as possible. Then, after that, I’m fair game to carry on, however, them or me, I don’t mind. I used to be a one and done girl, I’m making the most of overcoming that little issue.
@ben85 sounds like Ben likes to edge you to tease you and hold you on the edge as long as possible maybe?
In terms of the clit stimulation I’ve known ladies to say that as they cum using a vibrator for example and if they keep holding it in place they end up automatically crossing their legs due to the sensitivity or end up having a massive uncontrollable orgasm
Enjoy though, sounds like Ben knows what he’s doing
In addition to what you said, it’s not always the same either. Sometimes the lady wants ABC to be done to her and other times she doesn’t. Some women have wanted me to stop penetration when they came but that same lady other times didn’t want me to stop.
I’m not saying all women are like this of course, but many are. Not all acts and things that are done during sex are repeated each and every time of course, including things like this, whether they want to continue to be stimulated when they are cumming or not.
They don’t always feel the same sensations each time when having sex.
There are many different kinds of orgasms too.
There are clitoral orgasms of course, there are vaginal and g-spot orgasms.
There are blended orgasms of the above.
Some women can have cervix orgasms.
Some women can have orgasms from anal.
And some women can have nipple orgasms too.
Other things factor into this for the lady too, such as how long the build up was.
Their “release” varies too. Sometimes their release is like waves that roll and ripple through their pelvic region. Other times it’s more of an explosive burst. Yet other times it starts with a bang, a sudden release and then continues on with a slower, lesser release.
So there really isn’t just one way they always want this to be done. Now, I may not speak for any lady and it’s a big world so there could be a lady or more women who do only like it to be done one way to them and one way only, but I’m talking generally now and not about a specific lady.
Good evening!
Do you mean, do we want to be penetrated through orgasm and after?
I do! 
X Han
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Yes! Like guys for example some like to stop and orgasm, some like to continue stimulation as they orgasm (I do) so was wondering what females thoughts were on it​
I’d like to add a bit more to that, if it’s a vag (including G spot) or anal orgasm than yes, continue penetration because it’s not such a sensitive area. If it’s a clit only orgasm, with only stimulation to the clit, than no because it is so sensitive it can actually be painful.
In that case, I usually just pull up the hood of it with my finger and leave it to twitch it out on its own and that feels absolutely amazing. I Keep forgetting how good a clit only orgasm is.
I find clit orgasms quite tricky to control with toys because I can need lots of stimulation right up to the O, but then once it happens, it’s like mega mega sensitive and it’s a bit like putting salt on a wound when a toy like a clit sucker is buzzing against it full throttle 
i’m hoping to get my technique better with practice with that though.
x Han
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What was the secret to beating the one & done, over & out? Was it overcoming the sensitivity to jump back into action?
You definitely have your share of fun Samantha and are lucky to be a multi-orgasmic woman. I’m curious if you are willing to share, what sensations do you feel when having an anal orgasm and how do they compare to those you have from vaginal sex? What makes anal orgasms so good for you?
Just curious as I as a guy love anal penetration and can have rolling orgasms from stimulation of my pspot. I feel a building of pleasure that spreads from within my groin to my penis, asshole etc. it feels incredible.
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I was always pushed away once I left my load, and there was no going back for seconds for a few minuted, used to piss me off a bit..
Samantha here. With anal, everything feels tighter. I feel completely full. The things that make me cum so much with anal is when he does very shallow thrusting with just his tip in my ass. It teases me plus most of the nerve endings are around the entrance to your but hole.
When he thrusts in deep, the feeling of his balls banging against my pussy tips me over the edge. Also having anal sex feels naughty so the mental side of it also adds to the spice.
In terms of the actual orgasms. I get a really warm sensation building up. Then my ass grips his cock really tight and it’s a wave of uncontrollable pleasure. Iv learnt to just let it all go which means I squirt lots too.
Vaginal orgasms happen quicker but aren’t as intense but that means I can handle more of them.
With both anal and vaginal, once I cum the first time they just don’t stop
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