Femdom?

so I’ve really been on a femdom porn kick as of late just curious to hear what others think of it and any specifics they like most
I like the edging and humiliation

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Haven’t experienced humiliation or edging but I do enjoy when my wife is pegging me slapping my ass telling me to take her cock and calling me a bitch. It’s the giving up control that really does it. I don’t know why but mmmmm wow.

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Yeah femdom is on my top list, I like the women being in control some times and doing what they want to you for their pleasure. Is a bit of a large category some times though.

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We’re moving towards a more female led relationship. My wife is not a dom but is in full control of all our sexual activities while I am in a chastity cage permanently. She decides if, when and how I come. She chooses what I wear, if anything, and she makes me wear a butt plug and/or nipple clamps during the day. She pegs me as she wishes.

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I love femdom. I love the idea of being beaten and humiliated.
My wife controls our sex life . She isn’t really a “domme” , but definitely decides when we have sex.
I just wish she’d humiliate me a bit more

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Sounds very similar to my wife. She entirely controls where, how, when we have sex, which I enjoy.

I would say we have a moderate female led relationship…which ideally I would like to progress further. I’ve suggested chastity several times and she seems intrigued and open to the idea, therefore It’s a matter of actually going ahead with it now.

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We started with chastity (at my request) and are slowly moving more and more into an FLR.

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The closest I get to humiliation is when I surrender to my wife when she takes control and pegs me.
As I am usually the one initiating and controlling the bedroom action it is such a turn on to be controlled by my wife who can be very demanding when in charge of the dildo.

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Always a blast. I find femdoms are more, uh, emotionally connected and caring than maledoms in my experience. I’m not one for the kind of cold and rigid subbing that some people like. Obvious exceptions but the almost patronizingly gentle kind of femdom is my style.

Love when she gets pushy with the strap on

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In real life, get to indulge with my OH as the dominant. Nothing too extreme but we’ve done varying levels of

Spanking / whipping
Collar leash play
Blindfolds
Restraints
Furniture play (me being a foot rest)
Position play (me being put in restraints and left whilst she gets ready *done safely, I could escape if need be)
Name calling (Mistress / Slave)
Begging (present fave)
Masterbation bans (for me)
Body worship (bum fave!)

Do still sometimes watch porn on my own, but not into anything extreme (find pegging videos a bit boring - a lot of them) - the only thing I’d love my partner to do which she understandably doesn’t quite understand is humiliation. I’m happy with my penis but I’m getting turned on by small penis humiliation but she doesn’t quite get it. I love watching clips of multiple Dommes humiliating 1 sub but i think for me, that’s a fantasy not a reality.

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I am a big fan of Femdom, really enjoy the control the woman has and edging.

We recently started with a bit of Femdom in the bedroom. I think it is incredibly hot when the misses is acting dominant. I really like that she desides what is going to happen.

What really get me going is that she decides when and where I cum and that I have to follow her orders. So basically I don’t have anything to say or want.

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I love femdom porn. Well… some of it. A lot seems really over acted and forced.

It’s something I fantasize about a lot, but haven’t had the courage or confidence to try doing myself. I love everything about sounds, chastity, and orgasm control (primarily denial). Hopefully one day I’ll get to try it out.

No bigger turn on for me than a sexually powerful woman, I love being used for her pleasure, when on holiday the wife does not allow me to cum (despite lots of sex) until the last day then she makes me clean up my mess best part of the holiday for me​:grinning:

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Many years ago my girlfriend was the first partner to tie me up and blindfold me , OMG ! At the time we were exactly matched sexually . My wife , when she was active had to really be begged to take control except for pegging . I also enjoy some Femdom videos as long as they do not involve physical pain .

I love femdom, something I’ve always wanted to try. Not so into the humiliation aspect, but the orgasm control (besides other things) is a big turn on for me. Maybe one day i’ll be lucky enough to have a partner who would love to sub for me, but right now i just enjoy the erotica and art.

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Love the idea of this and have been tied up with the OH @Steffi.O being in control, but I found I turned into quite the best with talking back and not doing as I was told…

I guess she just needs to take control more and punish me when I’m naughty. :wink:

The orgasm control is the main part of our male chastity relationship but I’m gradually finessing it into a more female led relationship.

yeah, ive been reading your journal with interest. sounds like you two are having alot of fun. i like the teasing, edging, orgasm denail, forced orgasm combos. with or without restraint (would love to try shibari :heart: ) but theres alot of stuff id like to try if i ever get the chance, like pegging. maybe one day i will get to, maybe i wont. but a girl can dream

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