Festive Fun "Ask Me Anything" Blog Post - let's do this! 🎄

[Tenshadesandme]

Hey Lovelies,

As many of you know, I am a BSDM education blogger/sex toy/position tester (there’s a link in my bio for the uninitiated!) . Generally my blog is pretty professional (if a little cheeky, but hey, it’s me ) but I thought as Christmas is coming up, why not do an Ask Me Anything style blog post?

I put it to my audience last month, but, unfortunately, I haven’t had any questions. So, I thought I’d offer the same to the wonderful people of Lovehoney! Fire away, and I’ll be back next Saturday with the link to the post with my answers

Have fun! Xx

[batjamboree]

@Tenshadesandme - what do you prefer being a dom or submissive

[DLJL]

@Tenshadesandme which is the most unusual sex toy you have been asked to test? And what was your feedback?

[Lil_Strawb]

@Tenshadesandme What is the weirdest dream you’ve ever had?

[AJSTAR]

What is the worst thing you’ve so far tried or tested and what is the thing you’d most like to try but as yet haven’t?

[JGood]

Seeing as you are quite prolific throughout the Lovehoney forum. I try a side in a question not likely asked before and worthy of you time.

My question would be! What question are you afraid to ask yourself for fear it will surprise you or shake you to your core?

Are we privileged enough to know the answer?

[Tenshadesandme]

@JGood

Are we privileged enough to know the answer?

Not yet

[JGood]

I’ve got a better question, what favourite flowers would need to be brought to landscape your back garden into a heaven of peace and pleasure.

[Tenshadesandme]

They’re already out there, but that’s all I’m saying for now.

[AWB1955]

What is the biggest toy / most powerful toy you tested

[Tenshadesandme]

I’ve just started putting together my post.

Anymore for anymore? Don’t forget there’s two of us if you have any questions for the Big Bad Boss

[JGood]

Dear Ten Shades,

If possible please describe “Me” in 3 words not related to kinkiness and 3 words related

And we know it was a long slow attraction but what was that final spark that transitioned you from “Me” is just a good friend to what “Me” is now?

I hope you enjoy some crinkly sweet wrapper fun over Christmas. And thank you in advance for answering them.

[JGood]

I feel these questions I’ve asked are not quite on par with the intentions of the topic so here’s one last thought

Mr Ten Shades if you could introduce another sub into your couple to turn it into a thruple so that “Me” could be her kinky switch self while you are away working who would that be and would you let your kinky switch/sub wife be free to boss this sub or would you set boundaries for her?

The alternative is who would “Me” choose to pamper Master 10 shades?

[Tenshadesandme]

@JGood why did I get the feeling you weren’t going to pass up the offer?

[JGood]

It’s always polite to address one’s Master first with respect and once a tone has been set a more cordial friendly natured can be used and a small liberty take in the question and inflection.

So here my last question! will Master Ten Shades ever join us here on the forum?

[Tenshadesandme]

Highly unlikely, unfortunately, and for a few reasons.

First of all, Master just isn’t a “forum” kind of guy. He’s more of a gamer whereas, and in his words, his wife will “chat the hind legs off of a donkey” if she feels welcome! However, he does have a rule that his wife/submissive should communicate any messages/questions to him, and there are very real consequences for her insubordination!

Secondly, Master wouldn’t want to step on my social liberties, or for us to “dominate” the forum, for want of a better word. The forum should be a welcoming place for all and any, not overshadowed by a public displaying of our relationship

[JGood]

I got an answer early

Not obeying your own rules.

[Tenshadesandme]

Different circumstances. As a business owner to a business owner, you’d know a certain level of flexibility is key to successful operations

[JGood]

If you say so!

I’m just going to check my spreadsheets for how much I’m making here.

[Tenshadesandme]

Knock yourself out, I think I might go enjoy one of the many free toys I’ve acquired for reviewing. Early Christmas present innit?