With summer fast approaching so is my annual problem. I have a major foot fetish and each summer almost everywhere I look there are women in sandals or flip flops showing their feet which makes me very around throughout the day and causing erections at inappropriate times and places.
Last summer kept rushing off to the toilets to masturbate several times throughout the day and every day. I’d masturbate so much my cock would start hurting and towards the end of the day I’d still feeling the Cumming sensation but nothing left to cum out.
I luckily don’t have that issue but at a younger age I learned to dry orgasm thought tantric practice so I still enjoyed the play times and also prolonged them but saved up on cumming until at a more appropriate time
When a fetish becomes a problem….. well, if it becomes so compulsive that you wank so many times a day so as to have your cock raw, you maybe have a sexual compulsion issue. That’s not normal.
We all get aroused by whatever catches our imagination, but we dont all let them govern our lives.
If it interfere with your day to day life, I would recommend you seek help to find coping mechanisms.
Hmmm, I never saw it from that angle before @JustAnotherPervert You may have a point here. It is something I will now look into. It is possible its triggered by loneliness and lack of intimacy in my life. I’m a very lonely guy edited by mod all my physical contact has been achieved from prostitutes.
@MaxPower I would second @JustAnotherPervert here, not because there’s anything wrong with liking feet but because if it’s causing you issues… well… it’s an issue. You say you’re a lonely guy, therapy can help you build confidence so you a) stop seeing being alone as being lonely (take that from a woman who now prefers relaxing at home to going out to another bloody non-milestone birthday party ) and b) you can feel more confident in meeting people. @JGood’s advice is great too, though I would go one further: through controlled breathing you can teach yourself to let these thoughts come to pass without the need to masturbate at all, or less often. Fetishes are normal, but they’re abnormal when they’re causing us problems.
Oh I tell you how bad my foot fetish can be. Countless times I’ve been watching a TV Show or a film at home and a women shows her bare feet or feet in open tie shoes I pause it and masturbate.
In the cinema if the auditorium is busy when this happens I’ll go to the toilets and masturbate. If the auditorium is quiet and no one in immediate row behind me or the Same row I would get my cock out as masturbate in the seat
I can remember being Similar at high school during puberty and randomly getting rushing urges which was great but so awkwardly embarrassing and not ideal!!
There were times I’d actually just leave school and go home to escape as it got too much
@AJSTAR oh I’ve had some of those days at work (mainly during summer) where I’ve had to leave my desk several times to Masturbate. When i got pulled by the supervisor I just said I had something dodgy last night and now got the runs
Somehow I don’t think the truth would have gone down well
@AJSTAR LoL yeah saying oh I just keep going to masturbate thinking of female co workers beautiful feet would have no doubt had me reporting to HR. Other seasons ain’t too bad as they didn’t wear open toe shoes so I got through day without masturbating at work.
or flip flops
showing their feet which makes me very around throughout the day and causing erections at inappropriate times and places.
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