Finding my inner slut

Sex Tips & Talk
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Hello and welcome @moneykristina851 hooe you enjoy the forum!

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Thank you so much @Green_Eyed_Girl. Everything you said was extremely helpful and thanks for taking the time to help me.

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Hey @Sexterminator. I have asked my doctor and unfortunately they all have the same side effects. Believe me, if I really didn’t need them they’d be flushed.

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Hi @jeffsdaman67. That’s some seriously good advice. Thank you.

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No worries :slightly_smiling_face: Might be an idea to start a thread asking about it, might find you get more advice that way.
Have a good search of the forum too (searching for something like “meds libido” or similar should get you something.) should give you some threads on it.

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Thanks girl! Love it!

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Welcome and ask away someone on the forum will be happy to help

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I bought a wet look outfit after the comments about it on here. When it arrived and I gave it to my OH she put it on and was a turn on for us both. A zip that goes all the way round so was a lot of fun. Could also be worn out so you would be able to know it’s some underwear and know you and your partner would be having fun later.
One thing you could try is a remote control egg. You could have that in when going shopping or out somewhere and give your partner the control see how fun that gets.

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Hey @moneykristina851 i find that I do alot of my kinkier stuff when I am having some solo play. Perhaps buy some stuff to practice on yourself and then you can introduce them into the bedroom. Sooo many toys on here to really enhance your sex life

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I would say that you have come to the right place

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How do you go about teasing?
Short skirt and no (or crotchless) knickers, a bit of peek a boo now and then for him, get excited by exciting him?
Do you do anal play? Some on here find the orgasm more intense when anal and clit is combined (could help with your numbness)?
Sexting with pics or words or both?
Vibrating love eggs, hand over the remote to the OH and go out?
Random acts of oral (giving or receiving)?
Bondage play (doesn’t have to be all dungeon master like, can be as simple as a blindfold and/or scarf to bind hands)
Sex in different places (kitchen etc)

When Mrs Sen and I started our sexual awakening a few years ago (thanks to too much red wine one evening) I talked about wanting to release my inner pervert (much like your inner slut comment), with much of it relating to making sex more fun and not holding back from trying things. Perhaps a conversation with your OH is in order (especially if some of the suggestions above or within this thread would come out of left field)

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That really sucks…! I figured you would have already searched out alternatives that would work for you, but didn’t want to assume in case that wasn’t …er, the case. Hopefully, you will find a sexy solution here among the brethren and sistren who have responded. Best of luck, as always! :slight_smile:

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Go out in one item of clothing less than normal so no bra, no knickers, or no dress.
Find picture or story sharing sites and share as much as you dare or share them with your other half

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Hello and welcome @moneykristina851 !

My new favourite thing to feel slutty is to wear stockings and a suspender belt under a nice skirt with no knickers - then tell your partner while in public! Its nothing big, and doesn’t require much, but I think it definitely helps get you in the frame of mind for naughtiness!

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This thread really interested me. I loved @Senator comment regarding you “inner pervert”. I wish I could get my OH on board as much as I would like. We have as @Senator did have chats over too many bottles of wine as to direction for our sex life. Whilst my OH is coming around to some additional ideas, it is still sometimes below my expectations. That had to be a slow process and hopefully over time we do more “experimental things” together.
Really love this chat and the previous comments.

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There is also a podcaster I listen to on spotify, sex with emily, she has lots of shows on how to discuss sexual wants / needs and exploration. Her website also has a yes/no/maybe list that might be worth a look, you can fill out one, get your other half to fill out one and see where your yes’s and maybe’s line up.

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Well if my OH told me that i would be extremely excited just by hearing it.

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I’ve just got my Oh to that stage now but took me a few years of training!! By the sounds of it you like to be the submissive one so find out what sort of Dom your Oh likes to be (for me it’s daddy or sir) so she will dress and act accordingly. Once you know what he’s into specifically you can go from there.

I can’t speak from experience but I’d presume watching some porn and orgasm balms will help, the porn will also give you some slutty ideas.

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Hi @moneykristina851, totally understand where you’re coming from. I’m not too sure on your preferences but I’m going to throw in a couple of ideas and toy recommendations.

Ideas:

For me, I love when my partner is a little slut, she does things like:

  1. Giving me oral and dribbling all over my c*ck and spitting on it!
  2. Using a big dildo on herself with plenty of lube!
  3. Sucking my balls
  4. Masturbates in front of me
  5. Puts a butt plug in

Of course “being a dirty little slut” can take many forms, these are just some of the things we do to make it a bit filthier!

Toy recommendations:

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Some great ideas there @KinkyGuy1995. Add in a short skirt, perhaps crotchless knickers, stockings and heels. And that would more than do it for me. :smiley:

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