Finding wifes dildo and using cock sleeve

Hi,

Wife and i havent had much sex recently both 49 / 50 and she said it was her hormones. I then recently found a dildo in her things. it is big, very big. i am average 6” this is probably 9” and very thick. i was shocked at first as i had no idea she had it. but then excited that she still liked sex. obviously i wasn’t going to complete with 9”. we spoke about it, she was embarrassed but i assured her that i was ok with it but i want to be involved. we spoke for a while and she admitted that i don’t make her cum during sex because i cum too soon and she would prefer more size. I suggested a cock sleeve. i got 4 of them all different sizes and surprise she chose the biggest, 8.5” and thick, it blew her mind and we have had more sex in a week than the past 2 years. it also kind of turns me on to know that she likes a bigger dick. I loved the sex too, i was in total control and full of confidence. Are there any other men that use a cock sleeve often and had similar experience? also are there any woman that can give an honest opinion about her experience with them.

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Welcome to the forum @MattJames

We never used sleeves but we do enjoy dildos of all shapes and sizes - but if the sleeves work for you - then go for it

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Bravo to you dear sir! What could have been a rather awkward situation, you turned into a positive potential to reignite your sex life :clap:t3:

This hopefully should inspire many on here who are in similar dry spells with their relationship intimacy!

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Welcome to the forum, and congrats on the sex!

We also enjoy using the extender sleeves occasionally. Wife is not really a size queen and can be quite put off for a day or so after using our biggest dildos or sleeves. I enjoy that they can help me go a little longer than normal, both in time and length. Ha. Makes some positions and a greater range of motion possible which is good for her, and I certainly enjoy the feeling of watching more cock slide in and out than normal and the weight of having the extra is nice. Our most recent add has become a fast favorite - the Mega Mighty 1 Extra Inch SIlicone is much gentler and better use of lubes than the plastic ones and gives all the advantages without being too big or straining for her.

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If you really want to blow her mind, get one of the little wands like this and use it on her while you also use the sleeve. My husband got one for me and it started my entire interest in using toys.
https://www.lovehoney.com.au/sex-toys/vibrators/massage-wand-vibrators/p/lovehoney-deluxe-rechargeable-mini-massage-wand-vibrator/a37806g70033.html

Suffering with ED sadly sleeves are a distant memory but lovehoney do sell a number of excellent options. Our preferred choice was the mega mighty. Nowadays we tend to use strap on dildos generally via the pant/brief style as they gives sufficient hold without the faff of setting the straps etc and have a number of then with different dildos which we can swap and change with ease as parter prefers e.g. based on length or girth.

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We tried them when hubby was suffering with ed. Although he managed to get them on they were just too hard for me and hurt too much so we gave up with them.

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Never used a sleeve but do have a very girthy dildo that I love - so may give it a try!

Thanks for the inspiration :heart_eyes:

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Bloody brilliant! Made up for you.

Always lovely to see couples benefiting from talking and being vulnerable.

We’ve never used sleeves but my wife discovered suction toys and almost went off penetration all together!

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