Any tips to improve fingering techniques…
Also what positions do you find best to arouse your partner.
From the side, partner standing up, partner kneeling or any other position couples recommend.
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I usually like it sitting on my back. It’s best finding the g spot first which can be found a few cm inside the vagina and it can sometimes be puffy or slightly textured in my experience. It’s best with two fingers. Do a come here motion with your fingers firmly once you find the g spot. This works the best for me when I’m fingering someone or someone is fingering me.
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This really depends on the person your fingering preference. You will need to experiment on them and ask them for their honest opinion. I personally like my clit stimulating first before being fingered or it doesn’t turn me on. I like the rubbing sensation of up and down with lots of lube inside and out. Slowly adding more fingers in.
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Combine fingering with oral, I have had good feed back from doing that. Every woman will like something different, but here’s a few besides the straight fingers, in and out.
Find out how many finger she likes, or start with one and ask if she would like more, I know women who only like one, and others who love to be fisted.
Starting at the entrance to the vagina, you can do side to side, or a circular motion, the same moving a bit deeper, at the edge of the pelvic bone. There is a small patch of textured skin on the edge of the pelvic bone, which some women enjoy being massaged. If you hock your fingers upwards towards her belly button you will find a small grape like structure with the same texture ( the urethral sponge) Some people say that’s the “G” spot some say that it’s a bit higher up, and is part of the back side of the clitoris.
The come hither motion sharbur mentioned above is the technique to use, on that. Don’t forget the vulva, gently massaging the labia between finger and thumbs, as well as stroking the skin between the labia, and the clit. If you can finger with one hand and stimulate the labia and or clit at the same time, that should go down well too.
Simultaneous anal and vaginal fingering is another possibility.
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I like to have my wife laying on her back
I recommend touching her body first, stroke down her legs, tease her, try to get her worked up before you touch her pussy.
Then ready, I like to use lube and start with one finger, slowly start fingering a few times then when my finger is inside her, press down but with your whole hand and not just finger, hopefully that makes sense, this will give her the pleasure of something big stretching her, continue to do this and finger… then add in a second finger and do the same.
After some time, once she’s worked up, turn your hand upwards and insert your fingers, now she is horny, your be able to feel her gspot? It feels like a soft ball, start doing the come here motion against that slowly.
ALSO!!.. IMPORTANT!! EAT HER PUSSY! SUCK ON THAT CLIT! More women orgasm from clit stimulate than penetrative.
Hope this helps and makes sense
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Everyone will get turned on in different ways so make sure you communicate 
I usually have my OH on her back, legs open, me between her legs a bit lower down than missionary position, use one arm/elbow to prop yourself up and the other hand to work the magic, you’ll still be able to kiss them/boobs and you’d be in perfect position to lead to missionary position
Warm up with some clit stimulation first rather than jamming your fingers in and searching around 
take your time, she’ll appreciate you finding the right spots and gradually building up
Hmmm, depending on the situation,
Quick teases
If your standing you could reach from behind and play whilst you nibble her neck.
Straight in from standing for mutual play
Remember lube if your diving in - you wouldn’t like someone’s fingers rammed up your bum without lube
Long slow
Ideal if she is lying down, relaxed at ease and start slowly testing the lips before diving straight in there, let her hips / vocals / juices do the talking
Throw in a mini vib / wand to increase the sensation
im a sucker for sucking - something i discovered not so long ago that sucking a clit drives my wife crazy - she cums in about 30 seconds and is ready and lube up for me to slip inside her.
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