As with many others it was a blindfold for us (which remains one of our top toys to this day).
Quickly followed by handcuffs, ballgag, open mouth gag and a few other restraints.
As with many others it was a blindfold for us (which remains one of our top toys to this day).
Quickly followed by handcuffs, ballgag, open mouth gag and a few other restraints.
Hi there @coolhand4416, myself (male, 26) and my partner (female, 23) have been getting into bondage over the last 6 months or so. Whilst we now have an extensive collection of pinwheels, gags, blindfolds, floggers and whips, we started out with the Bondage Boutique Black Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint. Iād recommend something like that or another form of restraint/cuffs, a blindfold, gag and a paddle or riding crop⦠but definitely start slow with a couple of gentle taps and increase from there communicating with your partner after each whip/spank!
We have the Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Faux Leather riding crop and itās been great!
@coolhand4416 if youāre still deciding you need to have a look at todayās Deal Of The Day soon as possible!!!
Thanks
@coolhand4416 If you didnt snap up yesterdays deal of the day, there are some restraints, cuffs, underbed restraints etc in the sale this week
Hi @coolhand4416. So mine was actually free. It was my first time going to hustlers and they gave me a free paddle with the purchase of my vibrator and sexy net suit.
The trick is all about sensation. Itās about giving pain away to pleasure. Have her on her hands and knees facing away from you. Gently run the paddle up and down her spine. Then spank that ass. Remember to rub gently wherever you smack to take the sting out. Use the paddle to spread her legs. Go lightly up and down her inner thighs. Then gently tap the paddle on her clit and rub it. Spank that ass again and I think you could handle it from there.
It will only feel good if itās done right. Iām glad my man knew what he was doing.
Idk if this is actually considered bondage but itās sexy af and enticing.
Hand cuffs, ankle cuffs, blindfold, starter ball gag⦠and that should be a good start. You should have a pretty good idea if your into it after trying those.
Weāre relatively new to the light bondage so bought the under mattress restraints set off here and also some wet look lingerie for her. Bought a blindfold separately too. Weāve only had the chance to use them once but itās most definitely spiced things up a bit.
I bought a ballgag, rope, and wrist cuffs (and matching ankle cuffs)
Cuffs are great quality and still in good condition after many years
Ankle Cuffs, then a small ball gag.
Now graduated to hogties and a large ball gag
First thing I purchased was a whip, handcuffs and some sex toys in a set.
First thing was an actual rope (not a bondage rope) as we started opening up to each other as our relationship started⦠I thought she was teasing so bought it and wrapped it up, but her eyes when she opened it told me she wasnāt!! We had fun that night!! Many purchases later, the remains of the original rope is still at the bottom of the box!! Happy days
Blindfold first, then followed by a better one and some handcuffs⦠Then a few more bits including a few gags which have been a massive hit as well.
Rope⦠Been an old scoutā¦
My wife first bought fluffy handcuffs. And sheās never looked back since. She has a toto full of things just bondage. I call it a doms jewelry box lol
Iām reading the replies to this post thinking - hmm I didnāt realise we were into bondage but I guess we must be as we have : a blindfold, handcuffs, paddles, A leather Whip, a spreader bar, under bed restraints, nipple clamps, nipple sucker things, and a few other bits that Iām going to guess would possibly class as bondage .
Maybe Iām not vanilla after all
Some cotton shibari rope & an elasticated black satin blindfold.
Iāve done tons of roped access work so rope is an old friend. I just use it very differently now!
First thing we purchased was a full set came with a dildo , butt plug , vibrator , blindfold, gag, hand cuffs , flogger , paddle , and a few connecting chains
We just bought a wrist cuffs and a blindfold set. It comes in today. I canāt wait for my hubby to tie me up!
Bondage tape - reusable, non-intimidating, sticks to itself (not your skin), look lush, unisex, adaptable - you can pick any length from tying wrists to full on hog-tie.
Then flogger, then paddle and then collar and neck to wrist restraints.