OMG! I just used my new flashlight for the first time and it was fantastic!! The only problem is I came so fast! But I also used my first pocket stroker right after and again a super fast eruption of cum.
I’m going to have to be careful that I don’t train myself to cum too fast or desensitize myself and ruin being in my wife which is still the best!!!
But I’m already looking forward to the next time.
I think I would actually enjoy one that was slightly looser so that I could go to town before cumming
Funny enough my o’h recently suggested for me to get one after she saw them when browsing the male toy section on here.
It was after an open conversation about how I don’t feel much enjoyment of solo play anymore and find it a bit pointless.
After reading up on the subject, she thinks it would be a way to retrain myself or try different ways. But honestly I think I’d feel a bit daft with it.
No need to feel daft, if it’s something that you can enjoy then go for it. The textures inside them can give some interesting sensations and, while it isn’t a great substitute for another person, it can bring something new to solo play.
The one thing to be careful with is proper cleaning. Lots of nooks and crannies for moisture to get trapped and you certainly don’t want anything growing in there. Thoroughly air dry and a good coat of cornstarch and it will be good for a long time.
How do you apply the cornstarch? What is your cleaning routine?
Yes not a replacement for my wife by a long shot but a great alternative to the old hand only thing. I’ve been wanting something I could thrust in and out of instead of instead of simply stroking with my hand. Now I can with this once I find a place to mount it.
The drying powder you can get from lovehoney is essentially cornstarch in a shaker pot so anything along those lines can work. You want it thoroughly dry before you apply any cornstarch though as it will clump up otherwise
Yes essentially. You can take it out of the plastic cover and turn it inside out but i find a thorough rinse, leave it upright to drain and air dry then a good sprinkle of starch, a shake a few taps to get rid of excess and you’re good to go.
I’ve only had I think 3 different ones and they are a noticeable difference. Honestly my top pick out of them was
It’s a smaller one with 2 entry points, or as I like to use it an entry and exit point. It’s a good size for some concentrated stimulation on your frenulum from the other hole which just really works for me. But yes the internal texture does make a little difference.
I love mine. The feeling is great. I’ve not cleaned mine and leave my cum in. I don’t know why but sticking my cock in a flashlight already stained/drenched with cum just felt more pleasurable
I think you are right S2, and probably where the idea has come from.
We often engage in ‘mutual’ especially if we are a bit tired. Also neither of are ashamed of solo play in front of each other (some people are) and to be honest, she enjoys watching me more.
I’ve got a flashlight vibrating suction masturbator toy. Actually I’ve got two similar ones. One has a tight canal. The second is a little bit looser. I last longer and enjoy for longer the looser fitting toy. The tight one is really good but I don’t have porn star stamina. I sometimes go in and out. Get close then remove myself from the toy and play with my nipple’s or balls for a while.
I find that if I can use them a few times a week or actually helps to improve my stamina. If I go a busy 7 or 10 days without being able to find time to use one then they do get me there pretty quickly.
I just air dry and turn the sleeve inside and out. Normally leave on a clean bathroom windowsill with the window a bit ajar.
I do have some official toy cleaner powder here but hardly ever use it. Enjoy.
Yeah, I love mutual masturbation (and we openly talk about it). Its part of the satisfaction when doing it for him. We often don’t include PIV either.
And If I’m doing the research about something new he be can rest assured its a pleasure for me - sounds like your OH is very much the same.
I will say a fleshlight for me was the fantasy of his Penis inside another Vagina but without another woman being involved. A perfect solution for us and why we have multiple of them
Congrats on your first fleshlight! I remember when I got my first one it also blew my mind and led to me blowing my load very quickly.
What I’ve found personally is that I still cum very quickly with my toys, unless I consciously try to go for a longer session - those times I’ll stop and start and treat it more like edging. But the speed of my cumming with toys hasn’t changed how long I can go with my wife. I think there’s a big mental factor it - all I’m focused on when I’m masturbating is the sensation in my penis. Whereas when I’m with my wife, I’m focused on her pleasure, and where my hands are going and where my mouth is going and so on, so i last a lot longer
I have thought of getting the Quickshot one, I had another one from a big box store here, but found it too tight, so got rid of it. Honestly, the first time I tried it I came in about 30 seconds, must have been the novelty, which quickly wore off.
@Pogo69 Congratulations on your first Fleshlight, they are an amazing toy, but like you experienced they can/do make you cum to quickly (and often takes longer to clean than to use lol)
Can I assume you’ve adjusted the suction/tightness as this can make a big difference with stimulation also plenty of lube
I have found that if im having solo time I can and often cum very quickly especially if I have vision stimulation
But for some reason if my wife and i are having a mutual masturbation session I do last longer, normally because we like cumming together and I naturally tend to hold back waiting for her
My wife enjoys using the fleshlight on me, I get to the point and ssy to her “you better stop or im gonna cum” and she usually continues until in do cum. She says she gets turned on watching me pleasure myself or giving me that pleasure even if it with another woman’s silicone vagina
Maybe do some edging or let you wife use it on you, or better still have a mutual session
It is hard not to cum When using a fleshlight as they just feel so good and stimulate all the right places
I wish you luck with it but make sure you enjoy it
