I'm fancying a toy for anal, but don't want anything scary. While my boyfriend and I were getting down to it the other week, he surprised me with a bit of rimming. It was amazing. He was pretty tipsy at the time, which is why he was brave enough to try it probably, but since we've been experimenting a little with fingers and some of my bullets.
Aslong as you have a good grip on whats goin in you should be ok :). but flared basses are usually better. you could try somthing like a butt plug tht has a base or a suction cupped dildo as they work well as well :)
I've just ordered my first toys and they are the Beginners Butt plugs. I liked them as they weren't too scare and they had large ends, just in case. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22287
Hi, I used these as my first anal toy and would recommend them for a begginers toy but they will leave you begging for something bigger haha http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539
This was my first one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2041 and it's really good. I didn't worry about a flared base because I only used on end or the other and didn't really use the middle part which kind of acts like a base. With the vibrator I wouldn't ues it on your self, just let your partner use it on you and he can keep hold of it, it's not really for leaving in whilst you do other stuff, for that you do need a butt plug.
Hi QueenC, the smoothy prober is a really good all round anal toy for beginners. It's very versetile and you'll have hours of fun with it. There's plenty to keep hold of and even if it did disappear it's flexible enough to push out without any problem. I have got the mini temptation vibe but to be honest it's so tiny I hardly ever use it.
If you can persuade your boyfriend to experiment as well a Booty Buddy would be perfect. Pop it in before going down on him or before penetrative sex an his orgasm will be so so much stronger than normal. He will love it.
That looks perfect for beginners, its the one I've had my eye on for a while. I'm getting used to some smaller things- fingers etc., so I will treat myself when I feel confident enough, but not yet! :)
Anna_Oneday wrote:
If you can persuade your boyfriend to experiment as well a Booty Buddy would be perfect. Pop it in before going down on him or before penetrative sex an his orgasm will be so so much stronger than normal. He will love it.
The first time we discussed anal, he dismissed the idea straight away, but when we were having a bit of a play after a night of heavy drinking, I brought it up again, and asked if I could to it to him, too? He stammered for a bit and just sort of mumbled then changed the subject. Maybe I'll get him drunk off his face and pounce!