We’ve been married happily for 20 years and my wife who is 52 would like to explore what kissing another woman for the first time is. We have spoken a lot about this to set boundaries to ensure the reality v fantasy is as safe for us as possible.
I am keen for her to explore this and it does excite me too, but she is nervous of how to go about it and not go ‘too far’ the first time so she can genuinely see how we both feel if she started with a kiss and possibly some touching at first only. Then check in with each other if there could be a next time or that would be it.
She doesn’t want it to be with someone she knows though, so where do we go for her to explore this? Advice greatly received as we are new to this! We live near Burton/Derby if that helps
There is/was a great club in derby called the attic club! Would be worth having a look and dipping your toes in there. Different themed rooms and a lot of open minded people
That is a good shout - the club environment will be relaxed and you both can just get chatting to other people who have experience and can share information and stories with you.
You may not find anyone that your wife would be interested in that way, but you’ll still hopefully get a good experience out of it 
I think the club option is a good one,never been to the Attic but am from the area so know of it. Have fun and I wish you good luck with the experience, just take your time.
I’m lucky that my best friend (who us now a professional dominatrix) is also a lesbian and we have enjoyed each other’s bodies a few times over the years and it’s great fun - and as a woman I loved playing with her boobs
It’s worth trying it out - I’m definitely a fan if the male body over female- but I’m glad I tried it
I think the club suggestion is a good idea, especially if you’re thinking that theres a possibility of experimenting past kissing and touching.
You could probably go out to any vanilla nightclub and find someone to kiss but a swinger club will be a better mindset I would think. It might be exciting for you just to be in an environment of openess, even if you’ve no intentions of joining in with anyone.
Myself and OH have been married for 30 yr and in the past year she has just experienced her first with another female it all started with us talking about fantasies whilst with a female friend of ours and OH had said one of hers was to see me take a cold but it would have to be with a trans that happened and in the same conversation I said I would love to see OH with a female and OH said she would love to try it also so our friend Jen said I’ve been wanting to fck you for years so without hesitation my OH planted a kiss on Jen and it went from there.When we got home I asked if she had enjoyed it and she said yes I don’t know why I’ve waited so long a
Welcome to the forum, I’d think there’s some good sites you could check out for this… not sure if fab swingers would be one?!
We joined fab at Christmas. Looking to play with a woman. Had a few social meets, so getting there slowly.
Great to hear after being married for so long that can still be exploring new things. Great stuff, hope it goes fantastic for yas n let us know how yous get on