O am so glad you have the confidence too.masterbate in front of your OH I do.it regularly in front of mine its such a big turn on for us both. Happy cummings
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My wife never masturbated until very recently (aged 65 or so} but when we started the male chastity relationship she took full control of her own orgasms and masturbates as and when she choses. She likes me to watch her and she likes watching me masturbate almost to orgasm but always stops me before I come.
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It really is a massive turn, especially for me. The fact that me masturbating in front of him turns him on, that it’s me getting him excited 
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Yeah, I think that’s the same for mine. 
I’m still trying to get my head round this - having been (the Lovehoney approved) 20 years ahead of you. 
Wasn’t exactly masturbating (just looking) but some of the adverts in Bike magazine were pretty raunchy back in the day… at least to a teenage guy (over 18, of course!)…
I grew up next to a naval married quarters, back in the 80’s and 90’s we always found bush porn, obviously the guys ditching their stash before they went on deployment! So I’d imagine it was around then
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What are you struggling with?
Omg, @FortySomethingWife Sugar Magazine was my Bible, learnt so much from that magazine about almost everything, boys, beauty, sex etc. Luckily my mum was very open with me but it was nice to have the mag to refer back to with anything I felt too embarrassed to ask my mum (most things 
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I was only thinking I couldn’t have waited that long. But then I only tried my first sex toy last year and really it’s fantastic to discover a whole new world of pleasure to explore. 
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I remember my first time back in the day…i always thought what it meant by jerking off and why the shaking hand offensive is used. So one night before I fell asleep, I was lying on my side and I decided to start shaking my penis, it felt quite strange and awkward at first and then began to feel good. After a few minutes I began to get hot flushes and suddenly it started twitching uncontrollably and I started shaking, the bliss felt epic. It was only a minute later I realised my pj bottoms were soaked and sticky. I then felt a shock of horror on the embarassment i’d have if I get caught. Luckily I stripped them off, hung them up to dry, and washed them asap in the morning…phew 
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Fingers for a loooooong time. Very nosey parents, which is why I’m not a very nosey parent 
It wasn’t until I took my husbands virginity at 20 that we started investing in toys! We now have quite a collection but he won’t invest for himself. So he buys me lots of toys instead 
For years I used to masturbate before going to sleep, used to sleep sssssooooo well!
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Was so nervous doing it the 1st time. Was like peer pressure cause all my mates had. Did it in the bath, can anyone here honestly say they have ever felt the same as they did after that first climax?! The shock of the feeling was just like nothing else
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I remember my first time. Was at our family computer when I was home alone and looked up a few pictures. Had a few strokes and before I knew it I had the strangest feeling just before I shot my load all over the place. Had no idea just what was about to happen so was completely unprepared
Never looked back and been addicted ever since 
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I had been having wet dreams every night FOREVER. Found my brothers stash of porn DVDs. Nothing happened for a long time. Then one day it did. I could tell you what movie and what scene 
What a mess though. I was freaking out because I had to sneak to change all of my clothes and then give everyone a reason why
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I vividly remember my first time cumming. Prior to that I had spent many a time either locked in my bedroom or in the bathroom stroking my erection, the sensation wasn’t unpleasant, but it didn’t result in me cumming. It was later on when the subject arose during a discussion that someone explained how they wanked until they came. So armed with new information, it was back to the bedroom, after a bit of coaxing with a solid erection I was still rubbing my foreskin back and forth, probably for a longer period than perilously, when I suddenly had a tingling feeling, I stopped in panic as I thought that I had over done it, but my erect cock, seemed to have a life of its own, it was dancing up and down with a strange but not unpleasant pumping feeling and then it happened, cum spraying from the tip all over the floor. It was from that point that I understood the joy of masturbation.
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My first time was at the ripe old age of 30! I’ve only ever masturbated with toys and never really just touched myself with just fingers. It’s not something I think I would enjoy but I absolutely love it when OH touches me!
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I don’t remember the very first time but I remember the first time I squirted. I thought I peed so I tested it and would make sure to pee before I touched myself and then realised it was because I was masturbating and it felt so fkn good, so I kept doing it.
I would masturbate in the bathroom as it was the only room with a lock. I spent so much time in the bathroom after that, I’m surprised my parents didn’t notice!
I alternated between on the toilet and in the bath once I discovered that a shower brush handle made it so much better. I bought one that stayed in my room so no one else would use it and then I discovered dildos, thankfully!
The first man that ever made me orgasm at 21, thought I peed on him and was horrified by it because he was giving me oral. Bear in mind this man was 40 yrs old and did not know about squirting! It took me a long time to be able to let myself go to squirt with someone, I could do it on my own but add in another person and it just wouldn’t happen. Until now 
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My first masterbating story came after I bought my first thongs. I was rock hard in my thong and was working out in my room with like 20 pound free weights. I pulled them together and pushed my weight up like a gymnast would. Only after several seconds I began to edge in a way that kept getting more intense until I came and then like 10 seconds later came again. I was still hard so I started stroking and that became a nightly ritual
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I think my sister and I discovered it at the same time. We’ve shared shower time and bedtime for most of our lives, even now in our 30’s sometimes. Maybe that’s a bit weird, but we’ve just never really felt the need for privacy away from each other
So we figured it out in the shower, using soap. I had no idea what I was doing, except things started to feel tingly. So I started rubbing instead of washing, and ended up having a mild orgasm. “What was that?” 
Literally thought it had something to do with soap, so masturbation stayed in the shower for quite a while until we learned it was related to touch itself. Didn’t even know the concept of an orgasm until later.