Can someone recommend a beginner (unintimidating) strap-on for me and my girlfriend to try out?
We're looking to branch out and want something non-realistic looking - we're lesbians lol. We'd like something simple, but effective And comfortable, reliable, long-lasting, easy to clean... Basically, we're very easy to please!
It would be great also to have one with adjustable O rings so we can mix and match attachments in the future, but from my browsing, this seems to make them far more expensive, and since this is sort of experimental, we'd rather limit price in case it's not to our taste!
Preferably silicone and latex-free (mild allergy to the latter, so quite important detail!) ... Maybe even with the option for inserting a bullet, or a double-ended, so there's something for everyone..?
Hope I've given enough but not too much specification - I'm also very open to suggestions. There are so many pages of products in internetland, and so much advice floating around, it's actually probably more confusing!! And the threads out there are rather overwhelming, so if there is another similar one that I haven't come across, please just link me to it and accept my apologies for the repitition!
Hmm i might have a suitable suggestion! I'm not too sure about price because it all depends on the quality of the harness. Me and my girlfriend wanted the exact same thing as you too, we did some research and chose the bend over beginner (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=809), the harness is soft and quite comfortable once you get used to the straps and it comes with a pouch for a bullet (It actually comes with one too). I would say the O rings are quite flexible aswell (plus it comes with two). We decided that the dildo's that come with the harness are a little small and short for experiment with positions etc. Personally i felt they was much more suited to anal play (which is always great for later on!)
We decided to buy a new dildo that has more length and more width but wanted something quite cheap as we already spent £50 on the harness itself. We looked around and came across this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13992 we chose the clear version as it is actually quite pretty and isn't very realistic looking but is perfect for length,width and the tip of the dildo helps with insertion (also feels quite nice against the G-Spot). Try not to be put off from the shape and the veins ( they arn't so noticeable). Me and my girlfriend are the same - we don't really like realistic looking dildos or vibrators, but this one didn't bother us :)
The harness is great as you change dildo's to suit your needs for future experiences! It might seem a little pricey but if you buy cheap and buy a harness that you cannot change you might find that you would have actually prefered it with a different dildo and arn't able to change. Then you have to start all over again!
Yeah, have a good old browse on here as there are plenty of harnesses and dildos to choose from. I agree with Laurakine that it's better to get a harness with a removable dildo incase you dont like the one attached or you ever want to mix it up or change it.
You can also have a look at the Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock range which is good for building up a collection but it does limit you to dildo's in this particular range which i wasn't that keen on.........especially a lot of the doc johnson stuff is pretty realistic!