Hi, we’ve been together for two years, and we’ve been wondering if you have any tips on a comfortable experience for our first time. We’ve both pretty nervous about it and would love to hear from you since it’s our first time upon talking about it. Thanks.
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Take your time and enjoy it
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Is okay to talk during. Check in that things are okay before you do them and don’t be offended if your boundaries are in slightly different places. What is fine for one person may be a big deal for another so listen to each other’s bodies and voices. Don’t put too much stock in things you may have seen in porn or from others either. Take your time and find what works for you.
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Welcome to the forum you both! 
First times are usually a funny but fun blast and often never go as to plan. The main thing is to not hold any pressure on either side to perform… just go with the flow of the moment, enjoy the time together and if it goes tits up then just have a good giggle together
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Welcome to the forum. First times can be intimidating, and a bit scary, but if you go into it with caring, and gentleness you will be fine. Do not have high expectations of fireworks, enjoy all the sensations. It will get better with time and love. Make sure you use protection to be safe.
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Welcome to the forum.
Communicate during. Think about protection. Set boundaries. There is absolutely no need for rushing it. And be gentle with each other.
Good luck 
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Welcome to the forum 
As others have said, don’t put pressure on yourselves, communicate and have fun.
It’s okay if things don’t go to plan, it’s okay to laugh together, do what feels right in the moment and you’ll be fine 
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That would be my advice as well, basically have fun and take your time, planned out times rarely go well but make sure you have planned the time alone and silent the phones.
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Also dont go straight in for the kill .. learn how each other like to be touched
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Take your time, expect it not too be perfect, but enjoy the fun working it out.
Plenty of foreplay, making sure that you are both aroused, and perhaps a little lube to make sure it doesn’t cause any discomfort.
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