my OH loves being fisted she is the first GF that has just wondering how many out there that do
I personal hate it.
Omg I couldn't think of anything worse. Not my thing at all.
I know some people love this but call me naive , I cannot believe that if done regularly this will not leave permanent damage. I hope I am wrong and don't wAnt to scare any one. As just having a couple of children can change a woman's physiology. Repeatedly fisting will have some detrimental effect?
My wife loves being fisted as well and I love to oblige. It feels amazing she says. She loves to look down and see the tatto going up my forearm with my fist buried in her. seems to be a real turn on.
my OH finds its the only way she can squirt (witch she loves 2)
I have never wanted to try it, it just sounds extremely painful.
Gentle giant wrote:
I know some people love this but call me naive , I cannot believe that if done regularly this will not leave permanent damage. I hope I am wrong and don't wAnt to scare any one. As just having a couple of children can change a woman's physiology. Repeatedly fisting will have some detrimental effect?
Only if you manage to tear the muscle surrounding, or indeed tear her inside, or perineum. It is a misconception that women get "loose" vaginas as what is happening as women get older is those pelvic floor muscles surrounding her vagina get weaker (And overstretched, or torn during childbirth) so she can not squeeze as hard and potentially does not feel as tight. However, those muscles can stretch quite far (Like childbirth) and still bounce back with a bit of pelvic floor toning afterwards (So long as the muscle was not permanently damaged) This also means it is possible to be fisted and not end up with a loose vagina, so long as you don't damage her muscles or internally, everything will "ping" back to normal.
I have been fisted a few times (Thankfully my OH has small hands! I could not manage this with my ex) and it feels intense and extremely stretched sensation. It also feels hugely intense on the g-spot area. However, it is not very comfortable and takes a while to build up to, so after the initial thrill to see if we could do it, the idea of repeating it often just wore off.
People who do anal fisting have my uttermost respect, that's for sure! oooooh!
it's not something i've ever tried before but i wouldn't mine giving it a go if i could manage it myself i know you can get fisting dildos but trying it with one of them appeal to me
Fluffbags wrote:
Gentle giant wrote:
I know some people love this but call me naive , I cannot believe that if done regularly this will not leave permanent damage. I hope I am wrong and don't wAnt to scare any one. As just having a couple of children can change a woman's physiology. Repeatedly fisting will have some detrimental effect?
Only if you manage to tear the muscle surrounding, or indeed tear her inside, or perineum. It is a misconception that women get "loose" vaginas as what is happening as women get older is those pelvic floor muscles surrounding her vagina get weaker (And overstretched, or torn during childbirth) so she can not squeeze as hard and potentially does not feel as tight. However, those muscles can stretch quite far (Like childbirth) and still bounce back with a bit of pelvic floor toning afterwards (So long as the muscle was not permanently damaged) This also means it is possible to be fisted and not end up with a loose vagina, so long as you don't damage her muscles or internally, everything will "ping" back to normal.
in the short term, everything also gets tighter for a while as well.
I like fisting as an occasional thing ( in BDSM games mostly) and I like the sensation of being stretched. never managed full fisting though
sweetlove666 wrote:
Fluffbags wrote:
Gentle giant wrote:
I know some people love this but call me naive , I cannot believe that if done regularly this will not leave permanent damage. I hope I am wrong and don't wAnt to scare any one. As just having a couple of children can change a woman's physiology. Repeatedly fisting will have some detrimental effect?
Only if you manage to tear the muscle surrounding, or indeed tear her inside, or perineum. It is a misconception that women get "loose" vaginas as what is happening as women get older is those pelvic floor muscles surrounding her vagina get weaker (And overstretched, or torn during childbirth) so she can not squeeze as hard and potentially does not feel as tight. However, those muscles can stretch quite far (Like childbirth) and still bounce back with a bit of pelvic floor toning afterwards (So long as the muscle was not permanently damaged) This also means it is possible to be fisted and not end up with a loose vagina, so long as you don't damage her muscles or internally, everything will "ping" back to normal.
in the short term, everything also gets tighter for a while as well.
I like fisting as an occasional thing ( in BDSM games mostly) and I like the sensation of being stretched. never managed full fisting though
I never noticed this! (Mind you, I just felt a little too briused afterwards, to notice feeling tighter) That sounds interesting! It took me a loooong time and a gallon of lube to get past his knuckles. lol
I once saw a fisting dildo. It was just a fist on a forearm, that seemed to be a bit bigger than lifesize. Just thought I'd mention it :)
Curly Wurly wrote:
I once saw a fisting dildo. It was just a fist on a forearm, that seemed to be a bit bigger than lifesize. Just thought I'd mention it :)
Like this?:
Not for me I'm afraid
My ex tried it on me once (without warning)... It hurt like bloody hell! I don't even like being fingered so being fisted was awful.... Ugh.
muffinmuffinmuffin wrote:
My ex tried it on me once (without warning)... It hurt like bloody hell! I don't even like being fingered so being fisted was awful.... Ugh.
Ouch! I think fisting is generally not something you should do as a surprise! lol
I could think of nothing worse. I can get maybe 3 fingers at most.
It's most certainly not for me - the idea of it isn't a turn on whatsoever. It's scary more than anything, in fact!
My boyfriend has only managed to get two of his fingers in once, when I'd already orgasmed and was really wet, but it was really tight and hence a touch uncomfortable though it felt really intense and wow; I can manage two of my fingers comfortably, but they're a bit smaller than his.
The other thing is that I don't think I could anatomically manage it - my hymen is all weird. ^^;
only ever dated boys with massive hands. . So only been able to recieve 3 fingers.
If I bend properly, i can get my hand in there, but i got petite hands.
Fluffbags: its tighter for me, but I've never had a whole fist and I tend to have pretty strong orgasms from it.