Hi Love Honey Forum,
I have just ordered a few toys for my use, to spice up and change up my solo love sessions.
One of the items is a fleshlight, because I want to try something else/more than just my hand :-).
For you guys that has and uses one, I was wondering if you would be kind and share and tips and tricks on how you like to use yours to give you the best pleasure.
Matt
I lube it, put my penis in it, move it up and down and/or my hips back and forth, and repeat until I cum in it. Sometimes I call it derogatory things like a dirty little sex toy, or ask it who it’s manufacturer is. Sometimes it enjoys when I spit on it or give it a little spank.
My Riley Reid likes it more rough than my Autumn Falls.
(Sorry, I had to.)
I don’t have the right anatomy to help with your question and don’t own a Fleshlight but just wanted to say, “Hi and welcome to the forum!”
Hopefully, Fleshlight aficionados will be able to offer tips and tricks to help, though I must admit, @Gareth 's answer did make me laugh.
Hi and welcome to the forum
Hey!
I really like to leave mine to soak in some warm water for a little while, the material really takes the heat and makes things a lot more realistic.
In terms of hints and tips, Iv always made sure I have plenty of lube! And also when it’s been used I make sure I clean it inside and out and leave it to dry for at least 24-48 hours, the water stuck inside can give a bit of a nasty itch if you just shove it back in the drawer.
In terms of how I use it, iv tried multiple things including wearing a VR headset, but I really do think it’s down to the user. Laying it between a few pillows and pounding till your done is always fun, you can just lube it up and use the toy like your hand too which is probably best.
Just have fun and experiment, you will find the best positions and what works for you
Agree with comment above about warming up- if you have the time then thats totally worth it!
I love using mine hands-free in the shower with the shower mount. But also enjoy just stroking with it normally with my hand too. I know some people like the motion of rotating the fleshlight while they stroke up and down with it - that hasnt really done it for me personally but you could give that a try too?
Last but not least- make sure you clean it with it an antibacterial toy wash! Cleaning and drying them well is key to enjoying them for a long time 
I have mine mounted in a fuxxing machine so i can just kneel with my penis in the sleeve and the machine does all the work.
Generally I’m hogtied and blindfolded and my wife is operating the controls.
Hands free always makes it better. Try putting between a couple of pillows and then you can go on all fours and go for it like you would missionary.
Lube is essential and warming makes it feel so much better. If you’ve got a screw top then using the suction by tightening the screw once you are fully in also makes it feel good. Enjoy experimenting!
In the shower, warm it up first! Feels really good.
Some guys like to wedge it under the bed mattress or get an attachment what suctions to the wall so they can thrust into it… apparently it feels like bliss 
Hi, new here myself, I have just ordered a Fleshlight Pilot and was wondering is there such a thing as too much lube? Don’t want to waste it but never used anything like this before so just unsure.
I do like the idea of warming it up which I will for sure be doing 
Oh yeah for sure there is too much, I go for two pumps into the opening and then see how that goes. I find this is plenty without the need to top up - sessions don’t last very long initially 
Thanks for the info, that is very helpful. I am sure that I will be far to excited using it for the 1st time it will be over before it starts 