Hey internet, i recently bought a fleshlight but am not a fan, when i am able to fit myself in, it makes me cum too fast, but most times, (not trying to brag or anything but) i think my yk is too big for it, despite it seeming illogical, anyone have a similar issue?
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No not experienced that, perhaps try a different type of masturbator. Not sure if they are sized or not.
I can and do bottom out the flashlights when I use them. The twist cap at the top is great for adjusting the vacuum strength. Just like a partner go steady.
As for coming to quick don’t go hell for leather and take your time back off or stop. 1-4hrs is a great play time and remember the LUBE. 
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Which fleshlight do you have, is it from LH or is there one on LH that’s similar
As there are different types that come under the fleshlight category
Do like a flashlight but same as you don’t last too long in them normally have to take it out to edge
I had the stamina training unit for a while after I had the snip because going from using condoms for years to bare back had me cumming so quick.
Like others have said slow down, but also try and relax your kegel muscles and try not to tense them too much as that tends to send you over the edge.
5 mins with the STU fleshlight and you can last so much longer but more to the point relax.
Enjoy the journey instead of rushing for the destination 
Fleshlights feel amazing but yes they aren’t for me either as I like the feeling of my hand grip so something like a textured stroker might be a nicer alternative
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The first few times I used one, I struggled to get in, but that was because I hadn’t adjusted the suction cap and it was forcing me back out, then after solving that I also came too quickly/found them much too stimulating. But I think that was a combination of excitement and new sensations. Now I’m much more able to pace myself and they are a go to toy.
I have had a few different ones over the years, never had an issue with them…
It’s quite likely you don’t have the right size. I started out with the pilot fleshlight and like you said, it was really tight and I cum way too quickly and wasn’t enjoyable. I did a bit research and found the violet myers fleshlight had one of the largest canal diameters of 4” so I now have that which I’m pleased with. I now glide in nicely and pleasurable too use and like how I can just go at my own pace.
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I have several different flashlights. I find they can be quite intense. Wearing a condom helps and makes an easier cleanup.
I’m new to the experience of fleshlights. I purchased the linked one from LH about a month ago. I’ll say I do enjoy it. It’s fun when my wife encourages me to use it and she fingers me at the base of my shaft when I’m penetrating the fleshlight. I bought the warmer also and that’s such a great sensation. First entering it when warmed up feels so realistic. All that said, nothing compares to a woman’s vagina, but it’s fun to try new things too
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