Flogging for newbie

Are whips and floggers the same thing?

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Nope, whips have a single tail, floggers have multiple throngs :slightly_smiling_face:

Unless you’re talling about a cat o’ nine tails, which is sort of a hybrid of the two :joy:

So whips is the one I see often in movies. Though lately I’ve across staged photos of ladies holding riding crops. Is it true you need a lot of space to use whips safely?

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Yes you do need a fair amount of space. Although you can get shorter ones, you need basically need double the length in front and behind you and the same length above you.

As @Calie said it depends on the length of the whip. Really for indoor use a 3ft signal whip is probably best, unless you have a BIG space.

Riding crops don’t need aot of space, however. I’m a riding crop aficionado :face_with_hand_over_mouth:

Riding crops are great for nipple play and spanking on the palms and feet, not so much for the bottom :smirk:

We’ll have to agree to disagree :wink:

Wow loved your response! I’ve never heard of events like this? So is this a purely spanking/flogging event? With no sex? Or with sex? Or you completely naked when this happens or are you in clothes?

My partner and I are looking to dip our toe into the world of sex clubs and having both never attended anything like this we are potentially looking into alternative clubs/events where sex is kind of optional (appreciate it should always be optional but it’s not a purely swinging/sex event).

I would love to put on a show for others though however I love being the submissive and she enjoys being the dom (sometimes but think prefers other way). The thought of being watched by others sounds exciting!!!

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There is a market and the party is drinking, chatting and S&M play. There’s various things going on but no sex or sexual contact at that one. Of my understanding, Dare2 allows sexual contact, however :slight_smile:

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Would love to go to an S&M party… that would be a lot of fun

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With the right crowd they really are. I’vs seen a few ugly incidences in my time though, unfortunately