For the sake of sex…

Hi all,

Did you have sex with someone, you normally would never do, but because you were too damn horny, you did?

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Sure, my first sexual encounter was with a man 20 years older than me. He got weird and possessive and ended up blackmailing me into sending him explicit pictures/having phone sex with him and threatened to rape me when I started dating my husband, but I too was young, dumb and horny once.

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No never, after my first two boyfriends i did not have sex with anyone until i met my now husband so that was from about the age of 22 to 25 years old. I was looking for a life partner so i was very choosy about who i was spending any time with. Took me 2 years to decide to chase hubby after i got to know him socially and then i let him catch me.

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I can’t say I have but that’s down to only having two sexual partners. First wasn’t long and not a great experience towards the end. And my OH now is over ten years :blush:

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Nopes never! :grimacing: I’ve always found sex to be something special, although can’t say the same about the other side

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Yes on a night out, got talking to a lady who I thought was very pretty and there seemed to be some sort of a connection. Got separated, I think wandering off to the loo, chatted to another girl who quickly snogged my face off and then equally quickly decided I was going to spend the night with her. It was a great sexual experience but was never going to be anything more than a one night stand whereas the first girl had the potential to be more - in my mind at least. Kicked myself for being too horny.

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Have done so in the past at times, but getting involved with someone you really would not choose can get messy. Actually, they usually just ghost you, in my experience, which doesn’t do much for one’s self-esteem.A value of masturbation is being able to satisfy yourself so that you don’t have sex with an inappropriate person and can hold on until you do find someone appropriate.

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