My husband was using my LH g spot and clit vibrator on me and at around my 5th g spot orgasm I felt slight lower abdominal discomfort (like bladder pressure) and a slight urge to pee. I stopped after that and just went to PIV sex.
I have never squirted before and was wondering if it was a mistake on my part that I stopped I hear mixed messages that it is just an awkward position that I was in to that I need to let go more and work through it as it is likely intense g spot stimulation that will bring on squirting.
I have never felt that before when stimulating my g spot but never done that many in a row in a short space of time.
Best thing to do? Carry on next time? Any similar experiences?
Itās sounds like you were very close to squirting and there are many good forum talks on this subject here there was even a wiki done recently and went out in the LH emails
I would say put on the mattress protector, towels or treat yourselves to a moisture proof throw like this one
And then see where the next time leads. It can be frightening and there is a lot of worry. Thereās a lot that goes on in that situation and you are putting a lot of trust in your partner and your relationship when taking these kind of steps. Talking was helpful and I really wanted to make it happen. It is incredibly intense and quite bonding and liberating. And if itās not a squirt a few more kegal exercises for both of you and you never know what might happen.
All the best in the adventure and I hope you both fine the sweetly musky nectar.
Itāll never happen if you over think it or try and force it. I had a partner that was desperate for me to squirt and I never could bc there was too much pressure. Now it flows, as long as Iāve prepared the bed, otherwise I have to pull away.
You mentioned you thought you may be close to squirting with your husband stimulating you.
Why not spend some solo time to explore your gspot when masturbating? This way, you can focus strictly on you and what strokes, techniques feel good to you.
Have a pee first and lay some towels or a sex blanket down so you donāt have to worry about a mess if you do squirt. Maybe play in the tub or shower.
Using your toy, spend some time finding your gspot so you are familiar where it is and just focus on the sensations. Let your arousal build and just go with what feels good. If you feel like you need to pee, try to work through it and continue stimulating yourself. Just relax and hopefully you will squirt. Although Iām not female, Iāve read that the needing to pee sensation is a common feeling leading up to squirting as itās the fluid building up before release.
@CuriousCat40 ā¦ Mrs W here ā¦ As I have said before on here, I do not āsquirtā but what I call āgushā like a dam bursting, it comes out like a flood. However with more relevance to your situation, we tried for a long time for a āsquirtā without success. Then somebody said to not think about it, just do what we knew should result in a squirt and just enjoy it without pressurising ourselves. So we just made sure we used a blanket or Mr W 's robe under me so if something did happen it didnt soak what piece of furniture we were on, and one evening ā¦ Bingo ā¦ oh yes pee before you start, all as @JoCat said above ā¦ good luck love xx
Thank you for your response. I tried solo play earlier today but couldnāt get there again. Think maybe just thinking about too much as last night I wasnāt even expecting it let alone thinking about it
I hear mixed messages that it is just an awkward position that I was in to that I need to let go more and work through it as it is likely intense g spot stimulation that will bring on squirting.