Gagging/deep throat

Any tips on deep throat isn't, I'd love my wife to take me all the way down her throat, but she can only get me in to her mouth half way. gagging does turn me on, but clearly I don't want to hurt her or put her off. Any ideas ?

Hi there, I have just found a couple of previous threads on deep throating, which may have some useful information :) x

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/918502-deep-throat/page-2/

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/554885-deep-throat/

TonyStark wrote:

Any tips on deep throat isn't, I'd love my wife to take me all the way down her throat, but she can only get me in to her mouth half way. gagging does turn me on, but clearly I don't want to hurt her or put her off. Any ideas ?

I agree but Why? Can't get my head around when a woman makes noise when giving head. Gagging is just such a turn on but I'd hate to think she was struggling. Is it because it makes I think we are to big or the fact that they are trying so hard to please us that they gag? I just don't know.

The other thing I like is it to be wet and sloppy. My wife is very neat and tidy normally she would keep my penis quit dry , so swallowing her saliva as she creates it. When discussing this I asked if occasionally she was aroused enough she could just let it all slide down my shaft whilst doing it. This is wonderful to feel it all running around your balls and arse.

I love deep throating my man, it took some practise because he's fairly big and I still choke myself if I'm paying attention! Whether deep throating or not sloppy is essential. It's all about relaxing and angles, some parts of your throat are more sensitive, she has to stop breathing so it's best to try a little, then come out, then try a bit more, and come out, it's a strange movement so I can't really explain it, but it'll come to her, she just has to keep testing the waters and she'll find a comfortable tequnique

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Morning Tony,

We were actually only talking about this last night. My OH is very well endowed so I can usually only manage to take half of him. I can deep throat and take most of him but it requires a bit of prep.

I have to be very turned on and into it and feeling confident about it.

He can touch me but I have to have total control. If he starts moving too much I cant relax and end up gagging or choking. Sometimes this is fun for a bit but not always.

I have to be at a certain angle so that my throat is elongated and his penis can keep going after it reaches my throat. It usually helps if he's above me in some way.

It takes time. I usually take half of him and stay at that depth for a few strokes before taking a little bit more every couple of minutes until my throat is used to having all of him and its totally relaxed.

Hope all this helps. I'd say the key is confidence and wanting to have fun with it. Good luck!

The first time that I deepthroated was completely by mistake, ever since then I have found it quite easy to do but a lot of factors do contribute to making it easier for me.

The first is if I’m comfortable with the man – to me that’s my major factor, second is preparation; I have to at least give oral sex for a couple of minute before I can deepthroat, I find that it helps me ease into it more and makes the penis moist so it doesn’t make me gag as much.

Everyone has different gag reflex sensitivities, mine is not that sensitive but I find that once I can get past the gag reflex I am fine and can keep the penis in my throat for up to 10 seconds.

One position that helps deepthroating is for me to lie on my back with my head by the edge or just hanging over and the man standing above me or in the reverse 69 position, it elongates the neck making it much more easier.

Thanks guys, are the chaps you're deepthroating, limp, semi or fully hard, I see pornos with guys recieving deep thtoat and their cock sare at 90 degrees to their body, I'm always at 30 degrees and as stiff as a board, I guess this does'nt help matters. But what can I do I'm massivly turned on my clearly this is reflected in my cock !

Thanks Sexytime, brilliant idea X

You get throat numbing sprays, lotions and mints that help a lot (:

TonyStark wrote:

Thanks guys, are the chaps you're deepthroating, limp, semi or fully hard, I see pornos with guys recieving deep thtoat and their cock sare at 90 degrees to their body, I'm always at 30 degrees and as stiff as a board, I guess this does'nt help matters. But what can I do I'm massivly turned on my clearly this is reflected in my cock !

I think that one of the most enjoyable feelings in the world is going down on my OH when he's soft. It just feels lovely and I can fit all of him in my mouth so easily. Obviously he doesn't stay soft for long when I do this so I don't get to enjoy it for long.

When I'm deep throating he is always as hard as he can get. I prefer this as I don't need to be concerned about any curving or bending and catching him with my teeth. Also, for me it wouldn't be as enjoyable if he wasn't big. My enjoyment comes from being filled up to the point where breathing is an effort.

But it's different for different women. Some don't like the idea of having difficulty breathing. For me its just part of it. You and your OH should chat beforehand about how you want to go about it and what is too much for her. Let her be in charge at the start. I think when you're both clear with each other and on the same page it makes it far more enjoyable.

Anyone have any tips on getting the angle of the numbing spray right, so it hits your throat? I've tried numerous times but can never get the correct angle.

Hi MissUnknown, flatten your tongue at the back of your throat and spray uncomfortably close to your tongue. It is a bit like a handstand, you can only get it when it feels like you should fall. I used this spray, it makes a huge difference for me.

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TonyStark wrote:

Thanks guys, are the chaps you're deepthroating, limp, semi or fully hard, I see pornos with guys recieving deep thtoat and their cock sare at 90 degrees to their body, I'm always at 30 degrees and as stiff as a board, I guess this does'nt help matters. But what can I do I'm massivly turned on my clearly this is reflected in my cock !

I just keep taking his full length as he gets bigger and harder to take. It also makes it easier than just taking a fully erect cock straight away, easing yourself into the girth which you can't do any other way. Bigger and harder the better, it's an achievement when I take his massiveness. She'll figure it out it just takes time and relaxation, if she's trying too hard she'll push herself faster than she's ready and gip

Just try relaxing, lock your jaw open, breathe through your nose and move your head at the neck.

perhaps test with an ice lolly first

Anyone got any advice on a good dildo to practise deep throat with? Would need, I guess, to be thin and flexible

Anyone got any advice on a good dildo to practise deep throat with? Would need, I guess, to be thin and flexible

Was looking at those sprays until I realised last night I don't need them!
I have almost zero gag reflex lol!
I can take him whole length and down my throat.
Although my throats a little sore at the back today lol!

I can almost do this all the way ,lots of practice ,some days I can take more than others ,but he admitted on Saturday night the gagging is a turn on for him

Get the solid inner tube of disposable hand towels . Needs to be solid ! Put inside a plastic bag then fill with water . Freeze until totally hard then practice taking it as far into your mouth as possible . You can add flavour if you wish . This allows you to see how much you are capable of taking with the advantage of the numbing effect and increases your confidence . We also use these in hot weather to insert into the vagina for some lovely ice cold fun . However they do melt very quickly in there ! Have fun : )