Hi all. Just wanted to get everyone's thoughts/advice on how I suggest my wife has group sex or a gangbang.
Whenever my wife watches porn she always seems to love watching group sex or gangbangs. I've asked her why and she says she loves the thought of having all her holes filled at one time.
No for me this is a massive turn on/fantasy too. But I'm not sure if this should stay a fantasy or not. I'm open to your advice
Thanks x
my wife loves watching group sex or reading about it, but does not want to have group sex with other people, so we have a few suction cup dildos we use so she can act out being taken in lots of ways while with me and its not involving others.. perhaps try that,
Hi Leedslad,
Fantasies are completely different in reality. Most the timd these fantasies are best left as fantasues. This could totally ruin your relationships or make it stronger depending on the outcome. I'd think really careful about it as it's not a decision to be made lightly. Talk to your wife about it and see what she says. I've listed some suggestions below as imo they'd be the first route to try whilst having the porn on.
If suggest buying some deep penetration toys so she can get sexual penetration and anal.
Or even a dildo, butt plug and a bj, there's every hole filled. 👍💟xx
Yes I agree with pe iota post be careful that it doesn't ruin your relationship , I would try the extra dildo approach first and if you still want to go further maybe find some trustworth people to fulfill your fantasies
But proceed with caution :)
In my opinion it should stay a fantasy. I love watching gang bang/DP porn, it really turns me on, but that's as far as it goes. As others have advised there are other ways of acting it out. This thread might be helpful http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/lovehoney-news/sex-tips-and-talk/322-having-a-threesome/
There are also a couple of threads on gangbangs lol I hate that word.
I think it's only a fantasy so unless she has talked about the topic and not just watched porn then nothing should be done!
Agreed. I might like watching it in a porn scene but I think in reality I couldn't take the OH being enjoyed by a group of guys!honeybun91 wrote:
I think it's only a fantasy so unless she has talked about the topic and not just watched porn then nothing should be done!
As said before proceed with caution. We have had similar chats on swinging / 3somes etc. What sounds good in fantasy can / could be a nightmare in reality. While it may be enjoyable for one party could the other experience jealousy? While you may be happy at the thought of your wife having sex with others I'm guessing you'd expect the same treatment in return. Would your wife enjoy watching you have sex or receive a BJ from other women? As a result of these possibilities thus will not happen for us, however again, as suggested try a suction dildo or similar, anal beads / plug, blindfold her, maybe put porn on in the background to create an atmosphere while she rides dildo play with everything as ask for oral. This worked for us rather well (minus the porn soundtrack) and the image of Mrs LUC riding her dildo and "wanding" herself will stay with me forever. Hope this helps.Leedslad wrote:
Hi all. Just wanted to get everyone's thoughts/advice on how I suggest my wife has group sex or a gangbang.
Whenever my wife watches porn she always seems to love watching group sex or gangbangs. I've asked her why and she says she loves the thought of having all her holes filled at one time.
No for me this is a massive turn on/fantasy too. But I'm not sure if this should stay a fantasy or not. I'm open to your advice
Thanks x
I also agree that a fantasy is not always what you would do in real life.
I would be careful and make sure it's something you both really want. I remember a thread where a man had a threesome with his wife and a younger man and he couldn't get a proper hard on and then felt really upset later about the whole thing and it affected both the relationship and his confidence.
I would just be careful and discuss is properly and if there is any doubt, I wouldn't do it. Some have given tips about recreating a gang bang yourselves and that might be a good place to start. I agree about the bildfold since it will seem more real :)
Sxleksaker wrote:
I also agree that a fantasy is not always what you would do in real life.
I would be careful and make sure it's something you both really want. I remember a thread where a man had a threesome with his wife and a younger man and he couldn't get a proper hard on and then felt really upset later about the whole thing and it affected both the relationship and his confidence.
I would just be careful and discuss is properly and if there is any doubt, I wouldn't do it. Some have given tips about recreating a gang bang yourselves and that might be a good place to start. I agree about the bildfold since it will seem more real :)
+1 to this and Slinky's post!