What do girls like about being on top of their guy, and what do they not like about? The same question for the guys…. What’s good and what’s not good?
Your OH being able to control the pace, the depth, angle and many others things while you have your hands free to play with clits, breasts, bottoms, spankings a little pain play if that’s your thing or too from bottom
What’s not to love.
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From a guys perspective it is her being in control and the view as she enjoys herself.
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Its all good, love her on top, enjoying the view, the sensations and she can control whats happening
Love the view, the feeling of her being in control and watching how much she enjoys it. I do sometimes find it difficult to orgasm though as it tends to be a grinding motion rather than thrusting which whilst it feels amazing doesn’t tip me over the edge…
From a womans point of view i like being on top because i can control the speed of the thrusts. I orgasm more easily in this position and when that happens it feels like i am going to rip his cock off because i grip it so tight.
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Being in control - my husband is my Dom (by mutual choice), so I don’t often get to be in control (again, by mutual choice). Being on top means I’m in control, and since he likes orgasm overload so much, it gives him a chance to see how he likes it after he’s already blown his load. He doesn’t let me on top very often - apparently i get too “power hungry”, or something
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Perfect for making out - I absolutely love riding hubby on the sofa late in the evening. It makes us feel like horny teenagers again.
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Sensation - it is just deeper, and since she’s in control, she gets to determine the depth - though I’ve been known to deep grind, just to see how long he lasts
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I have a techy left shoulder (RTC some years ago), so sometimes riding is actually painful for me. It’s not that I don’t want to, it’s that weight bearing on my shoulder causes me pain, and I kind of need my left arm to keep me from yeeting myself off the bed.
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If I have indigestion or I’m hungry, it’s not fun - look, your stomach does weird stuff sometimes, the last thing it wants in those times is something poking at it.
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Summer + Riding =
- fellas, just because you aren’t putting the work in, it doesn’t make girl on top any cooler for the warmer weather. We sweat too, and when it’s 30 degrees out, the last thing we want to be doing is bedroom gymnastics. If it’s too hot for you, it’s probably too hot for us, too.
She likes the control and I love the view of her on top and playing with her boobs
You said it all!
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Over a number of women friends , almost all loved riding " cowgirl" and most just go wild . They loved control and I enjoyed watching them riding me like I was an animal in a rodeo . A warning , depending on how violent they get , they can actually damage the cock they are riding . Several times I myself had a sore cock for several days . However it can be quite serious and require medical care . The view of facial expressions and tits swaying or bouncing does make for a great show .
I know what you mean, i would try to be careful, not often you hear the horse say whoa. 
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Its just one more tool in the tool box. I like that she can control things a bit and do what she likes. I like that it makes it a bit easier to caress her body.
Dude here. Agree with most everything else commented.
The view. Freedom for me to use both hands to touch and feel. A break from having to support/thrust my weight in other positions. Psychologically, knowing she’s moving in ways she wants to feel good, appreciating her confidence in seeking her pleasure. The actual physical sensation of the position, where her weight sits, grinds, moves.
It’s also the only intercourse (PIV) position that she can consistently/regularly orgasm without finger or toy involvement, if she wants, and that’s good for the ego. I know it’s still mostly her clit on my pubis, but she likes what my penis does, too.
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I like being on top to control the tempo, control the angle & depth of his penis and it frees his hands to explore other areas of my body. I’m also in charge of his orgasm and where he finishes.
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