I have received a couple of emails from blog readers who aren't too confident in the bedroom. They had asked if I could write a post on simple ways to give good head/oral sex to their male partners.
Since you want feedback, i will give you some but please dont take it personally!
i think what youve written is ok,but not for your target audience. To me it reads like something you have found through experience that works for you and your partner that is failsafe. The problem is that i think its too descriptive of what you do which may be intimidating to women who dont have the confidence to do it, or havent tried it before.
It sounds ok to someone who is used to the basics and is looking for some advice on how to "porn it up" a bit, but to a complete newbie, focusing on the tongue swirling, hand gripping, ball tickling and sucking at the same time is a bit like running before you can walk!
I would say most women trying it for a start would prefer to do it under the covers and out of view because they are conscious of how they look. At leats until they get used to it and build confidence. Striping in the kitchen and looking lustfully into their partners eyes isnt easy when youre trying something new!
Since you want feedback, i will give you some but please dont take it personally!
i think what youve written is ok,but not for your target audience. To me it reads like something you have found through experience that works for you and your partner that is failsafe. The problem is that i think its too descriptive of what you do which may be intimidating to women who dont have the confidence to do it, or havent tried it before.
It sounds ok to someone who is used to the basics and is looking for some advice on how to "porn it up" a bit, but to a complete newbie, focusing on the tongue swirling, hand gripping, ball tickling and sucking at the same time is a bit like running before you can walk!
I would say most women trying it for a start would prefer to do it under the covers and out of view because they are conscious of how they look. At leats until they get used to it and build confidence. Striping in the kitchen and looking lustfully into their partners eyes isnt easy when youre trying something new!
Just my take on it of course.
That's good feed back! And thank you :)
I think 18yrs of me getting experience has made me forgotten what it can be like for those with a lack of confidence/experience. I am no Dr Whizz but it's nice to hear it from others.
The lovely ladies who had emailed me, responded this evening, that they will take on board what I have written,a lthough they can't just barge into their homes, due to living with others but they like the role play of it.