I absolutely love going down on my wife and she loves me being down there, but I find we are always in the same position.
So ladies if you could give some advice on best positions you love.
Or men advice on how you like to do it.
That would be amazing help 
I love having her thighs between my head and going to town while my hands reach around and grab her butt.
69 is also a rare occurrence in our house, but always enjoyed!
It’s hard to vary it too much. By it’s very nature it’s quite samey ie the same part of your body connecting with the same part of hers.
So here are some things we like to vary things a bit:
Some ones for the future:
There will be others that I’m probably forgetting right now. I look forward to reading what others say.
We’re limited to only a couple of positions for cunnilingus or rimming now as my wife’s Parkinsons is making her less limber than she used to be.
She prefers to be on her back on the edge of the bed or sofa with her legs spread over my shoulders.
Occasionally she gets on her hands and knees and I lick or rim her from behind.
As well as changing positions , change locations . Pretty much everyone starts out with her laying on the bed presenting . Blindfold and lite bondage adds a bit . When a bit younger her sitting on dining room table or countertop . Also when much younger on my motorcycle on the center stand ( stable big bike ) her sitting side saddle and me kneeling . First time in the dark and the next time out in the mountains on a warm sunny day . We both would get pretty worked up face sitting ( watch out for bucking bronco activities , almost had a broken nose from one ride ) . Also when a young body builder , several times I lifted a female friend and had her straddle my face with her legs on both shoulders . Not recommended for your average fellow . Being the gentleman that I am after having sex , I always clean up our cream pie . Happy tonguing !
I like several positions. Kneeling over his face is one I like, as well as any position my legs are supported (like over his shoulders etc). I also like the over the counter/desk access from behind. We also have a queening chair, which cradles my body whilst giving him full access.
Missionary, doggy, her sitting on top both directions, you lying on bed with head off the bed and she is standing, she sitting/lying on the table and you sitting on a chair. She sitting kneeling on kitchen workbenches…
To name a few
Thanks this is great, we do do a few of those mentioned above, just want to be more adventurous with positions.
I find putting a cushion or couple of pillows under her bum, lifts her hips up to an angle that allows great access to her lips and clit.
With her hips tilted up , you can push your tongue more deeply in to her… get her to ease her lips apart to expose her clit more… im sure you can tell i "LOVE " going down.
One crazy position we have for oral sex is my female partner in the Pile Driver position (lying on her back, with her legs/bum lifted up into the air, and her feet lowered down so that her feet are either side of her head and her bum is the highest part of her in the air) and then I will lick her out in that position over her with my penis hanging above her mouth, to then return the favour at the same time! It probably looks pretty wild for anyone looking at us doing that haha! 
Now that does sound interesting… I might have to give that one ago
I enjoy face sitting as it gives me more control
We have the liberator wedge which does just that. It’s expensive, but so much better and more sturdy than pillows.
It’s great!!
Missionary cunnilingus is our go-to. Sometimes her legs are over my shoulders, which keeps them spread but my hands are still still free caress her breasts or help stimulate/spread her vulva. When my arms are on top of her thighs she has a little more freedom to close her legs if she wants. We regularly use a dildo or internal/rabbit vibe to add extra.
I love it when she sits on my face, usually forward facing, but occasionally reverse, then she can play with me if she wants, too.
It’s a rarer position, but we’ve occasionally used a position where she lays on her side and I lay perpendicular to her back side, facing up, so that my neck is between her thighs.
We don’t 69 often, but had a great romp yesterday that went that direction for a spell and was absolutely fantastic. I’ve kinda held the mindset for a while that 69 is overrated, but with that attitude in mind it’s a delightful surprise when following what feels good results in 69 after all and it’s like, “this is amazing.” Somehow it just strikes different from “let’s 69!”
Yeah I enjoy that but she isn’t that keen on it…
Queening chair ???
Sitting on my face holding headboard grinding down.
Missionary is generally my going down on my wife position
The only thing I can suggest is going down on your wife after you’ve creampied her
My wife gets so horny if I go down on her once I’ve cum inside her
If you can get over the thought of doing it and just focus on making her cum
And it’s not actually that bad lol
Missionary is our most common, she doesnt cum from oral, but its always a good starter. If shes feeling naughty/adventurous, she will go doggy with her head down /bum up, this is my green light for both oral and a bit of rimming. Is pribably my favourite view too