Going into my first threesome , advice?

Me and my partner have finally made our mind up about a threesome and have planned it out , I am male and she’s female and we’re gonna have a threesome with another woman , she’s bi sexual and it’s our first time doing it , we’ve wanted to do it for a while and we’ve fully committed to each other , any advice on what it’s gonna be like or anything that I should know before hand , never experienced it before

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Talk frequently before and after, listen to what the others say especially when together and take it slow and don’t push your own agenda.

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Set rules that everyone knows, understands and follows. Ensure everyone is involved and no one is left out. Unless this is agreed before.

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I weirdly had my first ever experience recently with two guys and it was actually lovely and a tick off on my bucket list. Think the best practice is to just go with the vibe and ensure before hand if there’s any limits and safe word.

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@Goodbrothrel

Top marks.
Ensure they’re inebriated so you can get away with anything you want, and dont wear any protection so you can give them any STDs you already have.

Seriously, that’s textbook creep.
What horrible advice. WTF

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OMG are you for real? The worst advice i have ever read.

That is horrible advice!

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Referring to my post of a couple of days ago…it gets worse doesn’t it @user763 !!

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Yes it does, really gets me fired up. Trouble is they get off on getting a reaction.

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Set some ground rules, how far you want to go and what you do/dont want to happen. Talk during and have a safe word to pull back if things are getting too out of hand. Have a debreif after to discuss what you like and if there was anything you’d like to add next time

Lots of talking and decided how far you all wish to go with this. I would recommend starting slowly. Maybe just kissing and touching for the first time or even just letting her watch you and your parter having sex. We have a MFF threesome and it’s amazing we let our female friend set the pace of how far she wishes to go sometimes she likes to just give us oral and touching other time she likes to have sex and sometimes she like to just watch us.

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@Tomthetester me and my OH want to do this too but how have you found your third party? Is it just a willing friend?

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Boundaries, boundaries and more boundaries :joy: talk about them honestly and blunt. Do not go into it thinking it will be like porn as real people do have feelings and emotions.

All of that aside, have fun and feel the vibe. Don’t go into everything way too heavy, enjoy plenty of touching and getting to know eachother and then as things get comfortable take each step. Iv had an experience where my partner was kissing another girl in our bed and then suddenly the vibe died and everything just sort of stopped, I also had the same partner have a threesome with another girl and it was fun and another man and we loved both.

False expectations can really make things awkward though, so just set your rules, have a safety word and enjoy what happens. A lot of people forget that safety words exist, but it’s good in these situations as everyone knows you have a big red button to stop, if you need too.

Good luck! And let us know how it goes on the other side.

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I’m really looking forward to having a threesome too

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