@Dirty-Wife That sounds amazing! As a submissive and masochist myself I can certainly relate. I am hoping to meet a sadistic femdom at the events I go to.
It sure sounds like you two lead quite a spicy sex life! I’m jealous haha
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When we first got together we were pretty vanilla, one night I said to him about using cuffs and and cuff me to the bed, and that’s where it first started, now we’re doing all sorts and it’s definitely spiced up our sex life.
That’s awesome! Have you ever tried switching roles? I feel like it would be pretty fun to switch from time to time as well.
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We did try it, but I felt more comfortable being dominated by him, I just love receiving pain from him lol and just everything about being submissive and he felt more comfortable being the dominant one, and it just works for us 
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@Dirty-Wife Right on, there’s no need to change something that works for the both of you
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Th vibrator went well, took a bit of getting used to it for me as I couldn’t feel where I was with it. Normally I go in with my fingers while licking her and I can feel whats going on very well. It surprised me how I felt like I was flying blind a little without fingers up there. Still, she very much enjoyed it so we’ll be using that one again!
She was turned on enough to let me put the thigh restraints and blindfold on her with the ballgag and have some fun with her though! Good night all round really.
That’s the vibrator we got https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators/p/rocks-off-giamo-rechargeable-extra-powerful-g-spot-vibrator/a46185g83081.html
Another thing we have found good (again we found out almost by accident) is that we both like some solo play when the other is not around. For me it helps to have a play and work out what I like and how best to bring a toy / game into the bedroom before introducing it to the other.
@SW2003 Well that’s good to hear! I am sure it was quite a different sensation and I am sure the vibrations didn’t help to feel your way around.
That vibrator looks like a nice quality one. Was it powerful? Perhaps you should try one of those clip on finger vibrators next time so you can get the best of both worlds and still have a feel for what’s going on with her.
The solo play thing is a good idea. It’s good to test out a toy first before using it for a full play session.
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