Greetings! Any BDSM lovers here?

Hello everyone, I am new here and excited to be a part of this community! I am a 27 year old straight guy with a strong kinky side and a deep interest in bdsm and femdom. I have been exploring my submissive side a lot lately and have been going to local bdsm events in my area. In addition I have been buying toys on here to experiment with. I have really been loving the new anal toys.

Some vanilla interests of mine include learning foreign languages and cultures, traveling, collecting retro video games, and tinkering with computers.

Is there anyone else that likes to live on the wild side?

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Hi there @AngelsFallFirst and welcome aboard. :slightly_smiling_face: What a brilliant intro you gave us - we really got to learn some stuff about you and what you’re into: thanks for that. :+1:

Have a search round the threads and you’ll find that quite a lot of us are into BDSM to some extent or other. I’m a submissive guy myself!

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Hello and welcome! Is your username a Nightwish reference?

Hi and welcome @AngelsFallFirst! Great intro! :grin: I enjoy a bit of BDSM stuff but my OH isn’t interested so it’s a solo thing for me at the moment. Like @WillC, I’m wondering if your user name is Nightwish or game related?

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Thank you! I figured there would be some kinksters on here. I am looking forward to meeting many more like minded people on here. It’s a pleasure to meet you. There is really nothing quite like giving up control to a top.

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Welcome! :smiley_cat:

I love bondage/Shibari and I’m building my confidence up to be more dominant :muscle::smile_cat:

Hello there, thanks for the warm welcome. Yep you guessed it. I’m a hardcore Nightwish fan here. It’s a pleasure to meet someone with an excellent taste in music :wink:

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Hello there. Thank you! I’m sorry to hear that, I am going solo at the moment too. I have been attending local events trying to find a dominant play partner actually. Yep my user name is a direct reference to Nightwish’s first album haha.

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Love them, especially with Floor on vocals! Ghost Love Score live at Wacken, i’ll say no more!

@Very-Ape Hello there, thanks for the welcome! Yesss I want to get into rope bondage and shibari more myself but it’s hard without a partner. Are you typically submissive and trying to become a switch or just trying to experiment?

@WillC I agree, Floor sounds great on vocals. I am a huge fan of all 3 lead singers actually. Yesss, Ghost Love Score is my favorite song by them actually :pray:

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Mine too! Seen them live with Annette and Floor, but not Tarja. Some Within Temptation fans on the forum too.

Oh man, ghost love score is amazing. Nemo is probably my fave though.
Am solo so havent had the opportunity to try bondage but i know im a Top (probubly could also bottom with the right person). Mostly just had to stick my head in to say awesome username.
There was a great thread recently about solo bdsm ideas that kinky-cat01 started. Some good stuff on there.

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I’ve been into BDSM for some years now. I actually learned that sex was a thing by stumbling upon fetish porn. I’ve never had a vanilla relationship. I’m submissive and I mostly do things like rope and impact. :blush:

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@WillC I have only seen them with Floor since they hardly ever come to the midwest where I live. They actually came to my college auditorium to play a concert and that’s when I saw them. I love Within Temptation and Epica as well.

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@Green_Eyed_Girl Absolutely! I consider that song to be their masterpiece. Nemo is also amazing. I constantly listen to the Once album on repeat actually. I always love to see dominant women. I feel like I could be a top with the right person but I am almost always bottom.

Thanks I appreciate that. I will definitely go check that out.

@Candace1 OMG I thought I was the only one! I discovered bdsm before I discovered vanilla sex too. I have only been in one vanilla relationship myself. Rope and impact play are so much fun!

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Ah, here it is.

Once is a fabulous album, but to be honest, its very hard to pick as all their albums have something i love on them.
The song that inspired your name is another of my favourites, so beautiful. Just amazing vocals always.

The thing with Epica, I can’t handle the death grunt vocals!

Hi @AngelsFallFirst :wave:
Welcome to the forum! Glad you’re enjoying yourself.