I joined up to the forums because as a Lovehoney affiliate it sort of seemed a bit daft not to be here. I don’t know that I will be here very often because spending as much time as I do chained to my desk (theoretically speaking, at least ) is not what I like or plan to do, but I will be drifting about, asking questions, saying hi and trying to be as helpful as I can be
My name is Helen, I’m in my mid-thirties and married for ten years to my former colleague and best friend. We’re in an open marriage but not part of any swingers clubs etc, we prefer to have dinner and kink parties with friends.
I run a kink education blog, Ten Shades & Me (the story behind that one is on the site lol). I’ve been in the BDSM community for some 17 years now, as both Domme and sub. I started off as Domme, got thwacked by a harsh break-up (he later tried to come back, so that restored some of my confidence at least) and “hung up my boots”, becoming my husband’s submissive. Although I dabble with a little bit of swtitching here and there, I’m quite happy where I am. I enjoy my work and helping people unleash their kinky selves
I’m a Dom in the bedroom and into everything- most recently into pegging and spanking
My best friend is a professional dominatrix and I spend a lot of time around her home (which is a farm) and enjoy the service she gives to the men and I often assist - I enjoy this a lott and learnt a lot especially rope play and serious bondage
I have taken these skills home and often bind stockings around my husbands cock and balls and lead him around - just fun as well as water sports and love facesitting
) is not what I like or plan to do, but I will be drifting about, asking questions, saying hi and trying to be as helpful as I can be 
and welcome.
