Hey everyone. Given hubby and I’s lifestyle we’ve had our fair share group masturbation by default. A couple months ago we had a get get together with myself, another woman and a larger group of guys, many we hadn’t met but have maintained dialogue and some interaction with. Coming out of that hubby was invited by a couple of guys to take part in a woman free masturbation get together. Initially he passed and relayed he had little interest.
A couple weeks ago out of the blue he mentioned being invited again and that he was considering going if I was not opposed to it. I had some questions and we talked extensively about it. Basically it’s a BYOT thing where there’s no crossing of lines as far as touch etc. In other words it’s just truly guys masturbating around each other.
After missing that initial one after the invite he attended another last night and he’s been raving about it since he got home. He said it was pretty formal where they all disrobed at the same time and that when a guy was about to cum he’d announce it and the others would stop and watch him. He was also tasked with picking the porn they watched which is a revolving responsibility of those that attend. He said he had zero attraction to the men but that it was a turn on in a non attraction way watching another guy play with himself and cum with no women around. This is the same guy who will get a lot of anxiety if he has even the most benign skin to skin touch with another guy in a group setting.
I guess what I’m getting at is it makes very little sense to me and am just accepting it for what it is. Has anyone else taken part in something g similar and had similar feelings?
I haven’t, and I personally don’t think I’d ever have interest in this type of thing - but never say never. I just get no arousal from seeing a man masturbate solo.
If there was a woman involved as you first described then maybe. Still probably not my scene but on paper I’d probably give it a go just for the sake of open mindedness etc.
So long as he enjoyed it and you’re comfortable with it too, then all the best to you guys!
I’ve heard of such things, but I’ve never been invited or known anyone to attend them. I’ve masturbated with partners in the past and would definitely be open to masturbating with (female) friends, but I’m not sure how I’d feel about it being so formal.
More of the sleepover vibe, but we all know how that goes
Did that once with some old friends. It sounded fun so I joined. they’re all out and about and I’m just there like under a blanket. They asked why I wasn’t showing, I half lied and said I liked being nice and warm when doing so (I do, cool just kinda kills the mood personally).
Like, yeah trans (this was before I came out socially)… though, still felt inadequate in comparison… I was somewhere around 4.25-4.50 if I remember, and they all had 1.50+ more than I.
(Fun fact: no T = no morning wood, which = getting smaller)
They’re easy going, searching what to watch and I’m just there still hiding. once they had their lineup, it was easier to get into it given all eyes were on the tv; we all finished in roughly the same time, and all disbanded afterward.
There is a club here where I live called Jacks. Men get together to wank. The rules state absolutely no anal or oral, jack off only. But if there is consent members can touch one another and jack each other off.
I had just one occasion while at an extracurriculars camp rooming with my best mate. That night before bed got talking about girls from school we thought were hot and crashes, what we’d experienced with girls (he’d had some girlfriends some experience, me not so much), and fantasies, etc. Pretty tame content, as far as I think of it now. Led to him sharing that we was turned on and wanted to masturbate, and I said me too. Room was dark with our beds on opposite wall, so we could hear, but not really see anything. He came pretty fast, but it was taking me longer and the bunk was really squeaky, so I laid down on the floor to finish and he asked if it was okay with me if he watched, so I said if course. Lights still off, so just ambient light from the window. Anyway, that’s the only shared experience I’ve had. We would chat online all through that year about similar things and always half planned to get together after classes to watch porn and Jack off together, but never followed through.
Anyway, now that sort of thing is on the off limits per our understanding of monogamy, but I could see fantasizing about it…
When I was younger and had started masturbating I used to do some group wanking with some friends. The aim was to see who could cum the quickest. Never found them attractive or anything like that. I don’t think I fancy wacking one off with the lads anymore!
under a blanket. They asked why I wasn’t showing, I half lied and said I liked being nice and warm when doing so (I do, cool just kinda kills the mood personally).