Sometimes for me very simple things can bring alot of sexual pleasure.
For example, we just had lunch outdoors. I had my legs up on the wall sunning them.
Whilst completely decent to those around me, the feeling of the hot sun on my legs but a slight breeze blowing up my dress cooling me down below felt really good.
Lying in the sun for hours! It's the feeling of the sweat trickling on me, feels so hot and luxurious. And definitely agree with kegel balls too, such naughty secrets we all have, love it!
Cannot beat fresh clean bed sheets love the smell as well & another simple pleasure a cup of green tea in bed on a Sunday morning, I usually make a cup of tea to start our Sunday off, so tea in bed with my other half is a lovely time.
Sorry if I sound a bit old, I'm only in my early forties.