We both love using toys, male and female toys! Love watching my OH use dildos, especially in instances where I finish before her! To us it adds to the excitement, and ensures everyone is completely satisfied when we are finished. No problems with dildos at all, my OH has many shapes and sizes.
When I first met my wife I had confidence issues and was insecure about certain things. She had a dildo at the time which was about the same size as my penis. I was very uncomfortable with this, I thought she preferred it over me. We talked about it and she explained that wasn’t the case, but she got rid of it anyway.
Fast forward a few years and in a drunken state we ordered a small dildo (amongst other things) from LH. We both took turns using it on her to warm up. Turns out I loved watching her use it. I loved watching her masturbate anyway, but this added a new level.
Since then we have acquired bigger toys, and I absolutely love watching her use them. She isn’t actually as keen as I am, so its actually a rarity we get them out these days.
Even the thought of it gets me going, after writing this I think I need to suggest getting them out for a session!
I think a lot of men do not like the idea of their OH using toys on themselves. They feel intimidated by them, thinking “ am I not enough for her” ? But, to me, I love the idea of my wife using a toy to add to the pleasure, not that she ever does. I know I can always make her cum, not through penetration, but a combination of manual or oral in addition to something inside her. A dildo or my penis is the same. I can always get off if I want, helping her have the best experience, with or without me is my main goal. And nothing could be better than watching her in the throes of a crushing orgasm.