Hand-free orgasm/Prostate orgasm

Hi people,

Just want to ask some tips and stories about prostate orgasm as I never had that. Is any guys here had that and if yes how? If you had a toy which one would you recommend for that purpose?

Good description, I didn’t answer becuse it’s hard to explain but that pretty much describes it. I don’t get off from prostate massagers personally but I do off dildos thrusting in and out. Doesn’t have to be a large girth dildo either. It didn’t happen for me until after quite a bit of experimentation (several sessions) though but when it finally did, wow! I find I can get there by thrusting a dildo in and out almost the full length, starting slower at first and speeding up until I’m in what A4E calls a “continuous” orgasm. I also like to clench and relax my muscles back there in rhythm with the thrusting, clench our and relax in.

Thank you for this very detailed answer for my question. I was just asking this as i seen it on the internet that some people get erected and even cum without touching themselves. Also seen it in some gay porns. Im very fascinated about this as I planning to order some toy. Can anyone recommend some prostate massagers? I heard about ANEROS brand. Is that good?

A prostate orgasm is an happen without an erection and while sometimes it will cause ejaculation anyway it can also cause you to urinate.

Thank you but which are the best toys on the market right now?

I think Alicia4Ever has given some ideas if you follow those links.

I can only speak personally about my experience. This is something I do solo, although my OH knows I have toys and do this when alone in the house or in the shower.

I started in earnest around 1 year ago experimenting with anal stimulation using dildo's, I particularly enjoyed glass ones as they clean well and are firm which is good to get pressure on your P-spot, thay also feel cold with is a nice feeling. I've heard that metal ones are also good, check out ones designed for G-spot stimulation if you don't see anything under the anal section of LH website. I did struggle to have a P-spot orgasm, however, it felt amazing sliding something in and out. I cheekly tried a large vibrator that my my Wife has (but rarely if ever uses, it's overly "vigorous" for her) and found the vibrations really did give me a stronger feeling, but it's shape wasn't ideal as you need a curve. I think on the third or forth use of this vibrator I had a P-spot organsm and yes it's very different to a normal ejaculatory orgasm. You get this gradual building sensation (I mean 30 mins or longer !) in your lower abdomen, in order to P-spot orgasm you have to learn to "let go" and focus on that sensation in your lower abdomen. The feeling can come and go so can get increasingly sexually frustrating as I've found my state of arousal gets pretty extreme with anal stimulation, honestly I end up panting like a dog !! I then bought a G-spot/P-spot vibrator which LH no longer do, but it was a good quality one around £100 (I'm at my PC and cannot remember the brand), but what attracted me to it were the female comments about it. It has a couple of lower "random" rumbling vibration settings (there are 8 in all I think) and I've found that really does the trick, but it still takes time. That P-spot vibrator is proably now my go to toy and I've become so used to the feeling of anal stilumation that I can usually acheive an organsm every time, but there are still times when I don't, at those times you just have to realise the arousal and feelings are still very, very good. I sort of get a semi-erect penis during stimulation and there is usually some, on occasions a lot, of pre-cum. Generally there is no ejaculation as such, but occaisonally there is, I've never urinated as a consequence of anal stimulation. One thing I have noted is that sex and traditional orgasm with my OH is more intense I presume because of all the ejaculate build up. Double benefits !

I've also being experimenting with butt plugs and have worn some of these "out and about" which is an odd but pleasent feeling. I started with glass ones, but I now find the flaring, which prevents it "riding up" too small. I then made a decision to buy the LH large butt plug later last year, you should read my review that I just posted, but the upshot is that it was a struggle to take, but oh yes when you finally manage, pushing a bullett vibe in the hole gives me a P-spot orgasm too.

Well that's my journey so far. One issue is that I now routinely fantasise about my OH pegging me, not sure if I'll ever get her to do that, but it's a lovely image in my mind ![](upload://ez5kOkpKXRZOxjavAURYmQxVTau.gif)

A few final points. I bought an anal douche which is useful to "clean out", always go to the loo first, and do use plenty of anal lube for the butt plugs, but only a little/just enough on any P-spot vibrators otherwise it will slid out when you don't want it to. This has happened to me a few times, I just wipe off the lube that that's there and re-insert with any lube that's already in my anal passage, it's usually all good then ! Body position can also help improve your chances of P-spot orgasm, for me the best is in the shower and I close my legs to maximise the internal contact and lean forward against the wall to hit the right spots. I also occasionally just gently touch my penis to help the sensation grow a bit stronger, not masturbation of my penis, just a few gentle carassing strokes, this does make me erect generally. Doing this sparringly does help to strenghen the feeling in my abdomen for the P-spot orgasm and as soon as I feel that growing I stop touching my penis; you have to be patient and disciplined to do this. One of the dissapointments that can occur, especially in the early days while you practise, is that you "accidentally" orgasm the traditional way and ejaculate. I've found those orgasms to be weaker than normal and consequentally dissapointing, so I have to console myself with the feeling of arousal and the anal stimulation sensations; anyway do be prepared for this as it does feel like a set back.

I was pleased to see this post as I was going to ask about multiple anal/P-spot orgasms and whether they were possible; I see someone mentioned this. Yesterday I think I had my first one. I had a series of waves of pleasent P-spot orgasmic sensations go on for a number of minutes and then I ejaculated with a powerful orgasm and loads of cum, which caught me unawares as it went all over the bedding, don't tell my Wife ! Well actually I did tell my Wife about what I had experienced, just not the messy bit. She has been supportive so far, but possibly I gave her a little too much information and she possibly felt treatened by it; anyway that's for me to worry about.

Good luck in your explorations.

MS@50

PS I've read that a prostrate massager like the Aneros brand can be difficult to master, their website gives lots of advice and help. I have considered getting one, but I'm happy with what I have at the moment, I'm still new to this having only been doing anal stimulation for 1 year.

Have fun, trying is certainly part of the enjoyment, but don't be disheartened if it takes time to perfect; it took me a number of attempts and then only sporodically successful, but now much easier after a year. It's almost as if you have to re-train how you body reacts to the sensation of being stimulated anally rather than via your penis; it's a most curious and pleasurable feeling and makes a change.

Byeeee

Is there anyone who can hire to help you reach prostate orgasm and it’s not an escort or a hooker?😅

Tantric massage services are what to look for, haven't done this, but there are plenty out there based in London. Afraid the best I can suggest is Google or meetup groups like Men in Touch

Thanks!😊

Flyaway wrote:

Hi people,

Just want to ask some tips and stories about prostate orgasm. If you had a toy which one would you recommend for that purpose?

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37969 Mantric Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Vibrator My first ever time of trying it. this is my review on it wow wow. I have been interested in hands-free masturbation and always thought it would take ages to achieve. It quite literally took 15 seconds for the milk to start dripping out. I love this product. The packaging is stylish and understated. It makes you feel like you opening a box of Ferrero Rocher. You lift the lid and are greeted to the foam layer. Then you are greeted by lovely feeling soft silk like type bags, which adds to the anticipation. Wham. Then you get this God of all sex toys in your hands. It made me think of star wars with the contemporary controller that has a lovely sleek light running through the centre to signify which mode of excitement, giving thrilling milking stage you want. The controls are easy to find and use in the heights of ecstasy. It's not distracting at all. Now on to the main beast of this toy. OMG at first I thought how is this going to get inside me with the shape of the main bulbous end shaft. I warmed it up, got my lube, plenty of lube and started teasing my entrance. The vibrations are so intense and makes you relax. The first part slipped in and makes you feel like you are going to explode then rock it slowly. Then I slipped it all in. I nearly wet myself with the pulsing deep vibrations and cycles they have. It's dead easy to manoeuvre when inside you, and easy to find the holy grail of mens orgasms - the P-spot. I was lying flat on my back and was moving the perineum joy giver with my hand and the feeling from the vibrations are amazing on your fingertips. So I was moving it back and forth and OMG my milky liquid was dribbling out. I was like yes yes yes, this is the pinnacle of my P-spot discovery. I changed positions and sat up. The perineum and my ball where having a party of their own. It's like two sex toys in one. The feel is like a human touch, so I started rocking backward and forward on the the toy and my body was shaking with the intensity. My hole was gripping and relaxing at each different cycle of vibrations. This is mind-blowing. I was getting more thicker consistency coming out of my throbbing penis. I touch the tip and my head was ready to explode. I lay back and it was the best intense orgasm ever. The toy is superb. You have a light on the beast of the toy which corresponds with the control, so you can either use the control or the beast to change settings. It is worth spending your money on and the time on it to get use to it and discover which is best for you. Cleaning the toy is easy. I can't wait till I use it again. This is my weekly Sunday sex fix. Praise the orgasm-giving gods of Mantric and Lovehoney. Overall Rating:9 out of 10 stars ProsEase of control. The perineum aspect and exquisite design. It is a masterpiece of engineering.ConsThat my husband is now jealous of it lol.Bottom linePerfection in its design sleek look. OMG OMG OMG. Orgasmic, body-shaking milking machine.

Sounds amazing! One day I’ll try it!😊

Who has a good story regards that?? I would love to hear some!!! :)

Great post! For cheaper alternatives (although not hands free) I found this to be the best thing ever: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2041 (and my review) https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2041&reviewid=210914#customer_reviews Honestly the greatest solo orgasms I've ever experienced but I need to be in the mood. The location of the prostate described above didn't quite resonate with me but I'm definitely hitting something good! It makes me rock hard almost instantly and takes a bit of warming up and manoeuvring but when I find it there’s fireworks! As A4E says it’s all personal and individual and there’s a lot of sensations down there so best to experiment. Mine are a ‘blended’ orgasm as when I’m super close I get overwhelmed and can’t help wa**ing off at the same time as thrusting (I’ve tried many a time to go just anal but the sensations are so good it’s frankly impossible Final thing is an ex was supremely good with her finger meaning she could get me to cum in about 10 minutes. She had small hands though and I tend to go deeper solo, so who knows! This orgasm had no ejaculation and was quite different to both a normal one and the one I’ve described above. Good luck champ!