Keep a Smile while giving handjob and just let him know you WANT to go threw with it... But to kiss him while your trying to get his penis out might be difficult.. i would just follow with what he likes..Don't be scared to ask.
Lube ,use 2 hand change things up and twisting as you stroke is good
Have just tried giving him a hand job with a pair of marigold rubber gloves on. The sort with the moulded in pimples to aid grip. He has never cum quicker.
I disagree with some of these suggestions - which doesnāt mean others are wrong, just means that not everyone likes the same thing.
Here are 2 pennies from me:
- Firmness of the grip is important and under appreciated as a factor.
- Donāt ignore the balls; going between lightly touching and cupping is nice.
- A bit of wetness helps (but not too much, as you want friction), so spit on it.
- Act like you give a shit. Enthusiasm, rather than treating it as a chore is important.
- Visual and audible stimulus can help⦠so do and say nasty things as youāre doing it.
Biggest suggestion I can make is ask him to jerk himself off and watch what he does, then try to do that.
My OH loves handjobs with a latex glove. We do it over a condom but the lube goes on outside. Itās a little more work than just lube inside a condom. He likes it better though and still no clean up. Use the glove when I want to drive him wild
Totally agreeā¦whilst with my nurses outfit on and during Roleplayā¦I assisted him to the bathroom snapped on my latex gloves and āhelpedā him to obtain his sampleā¦
Letās just say it didnāt take long and was a heavy sampleā¦he said the gloves just added to the scenarioā¦he was literally blown away.
Hastened to add he was with ābupaā I told him if he was a NHS patient it would have been an old Mayfair and a Tupperware tubā¦
Not gunna lie i have used a latex glove to masturbate and it does change it up really good
@Gareth had some good tips and everyone is different. My tips are based on my likes:
- Donāt treat it as a race, tease him and use both hands.
- Stimulate his balls and perineum or even try a lubed finger teasing in his ass if he likes it.
- Watch him and his penis and be guided by his feedback. Eye contact can be a huge turn on.
- When heās close maybe slow and edge him or tell him that you want to see him cum increase speed and grip. I always love it when she says she wants me to come on her tits
- As others have already added continue stroking at a slower speed and slightly lighter grip after he starts to cut until his cock stops twitching or he asks you to stop when heās just too sensitive.
The other thing I would add is that I really enjoy oral and hand jobs combined but there is another thread for that discussion.
As @Gareth says, look interested (it shouldnt be a chore).
Lubrication is key as painful friction will kill the feeling.
Perhaps occasionally alter the angle of his cock while you are holding him (this can make it feel different).
Eye to eye contact is really hot.
Adjust your speed ( but watch him for signs).
Be vocal. Tell him how much you like holding his big cock and running your hand up and down his shaft.
Most of all enjoy (and make sure he does).
Use the thumb and forefinger of one hand to pull the foreskin down to the base. With the other, and plenty of lube or saliva, very gently slide your hand up and down the top of the shaft and helmet, sliding on the skin, rather than dragging it up and down. Even better with rings on. The most intense sensations, rise and orgasm ever. I feel like Iām on the edge of orgasm for ages when Trixie does this