Handjob tips and positions for a straight couple

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We want to explore HJ more. Do you have any tips on positions that work great?

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@lilly30 if its advice on giving a man a hand job - then a lot of practice is good / start with a firm grip about half way among the shaft and slowly move up and down - if you find resistance put your hand higher up towards to penis end and slowly start - donā€™t go too fast and listen to him - he will tell you if it hurts or you are doing it wrong

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My favourite position is laying on my back with my wife kneelling across my legs facing me.
She can use either or both hands and i can watch everything sheā€™s doing to me.

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I prefer my OH to lie on his back but most the time with us, a hand job turns into a blow job. I lie on my side to start with but do what feels comfortable for you both.

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Occasionally my wife likes to have me on all fours and milk my cock like a cow. Itā€™s quite erotic to have her pull me off like this. Give it a try.

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Position is part of it.
Technique is far more important.

I love just lying there while being pleasured.

Wifey likes getting me to straddle her hips, with ā€˜meā€™ around her belly-button

She gave me a reach-around in the shower recently and that was AWESOME!

But again, TECHNIQUE! Start slow and gentle, and ask/listen to your guy. An average HJ can be ho-hum, but a good one can be :sparkler:

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Our favourite position (for my wife masturbating me) is lying on our backs with our heads at opposite ends of the bed, and our genitals touching. Then we raise our knees up, but keep our feet flat on the bed.

Watching is often a turn-on when it comes to masturbation, but in this case the fact that you canā€™t see whatā€™s going on is an advantage.

Make sure you get the lube ready before you get in position.

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The beauty of having a hand job from your other half is that it can happen to completion, as foreplay, or as a ā€œbreakā€ during penetrative sex.

The latter one is probably the one where she gets me the most worked up (though foreplay and to completion is freaking amazing too!!!), but her starting to wank me during penetrative sex, then taking me out to slowly keeping doing it and not allow me back in her pussy gets me crazy. I know she doing it just for me, she knows i love it, and she is delightfully deliberately slow and firm with itā€¦ and does it just for me. She owns my pleasure at that point in time, and is happy foregoing her own for me.

Gosh, Iā€™m getting worked up!!!

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